Mashada - African Chat, Discussions, Blogs, Photos, Classifieds & More!
 
HOME Forums Chat Photos Blog Events Calendar Directory

Go Back   Mashada Forums > Society & Culture > Religion & Philosophy > Not discussing Sex in marriage can lead ...
Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
(#1 (permalink))
Old
Senior Member
TeamManager
 
Posts: 1,790
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Nairobi
Report Post
Default Not discussing Sex in marriage can lead ... - 04-29-2004, 11:49 AM

For my friends, this could be a lesson worth learning for Us who are married. Hey can you all stand the test of time??

Sex according to Pastor Khathide (Ugandan)

A lot of people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex weren't holy. The bible is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style.

Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!!!!!.

Pastor Khathide has counseled women who've complained: my husband treats me as if I were his brother. There was one who told him: I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. Khathide told her she was
lucky to be getting sex fortnightly, since some wives only get it on big days, like elections.

Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow. Have you ever asked yourself what those wives have that you don't. Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If
you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.

Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband.

There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' penis look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They've never touched it, let alone see it, because the husband switches off the lights before undressing. A penis is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it.

He blames couples for not making time for sex and complaining about being tired after a day's work. You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and
also for pleasure. You can't marry and not have a good time in bed.

WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?

Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We're all equal in sex - it's not just about a woman satisfying a man. You have to satisfy each other.

Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have u noticed how she glows and become energetic?
 
Reply With Quote
(#2 (permalink))
Old
Senior Member
petermaumau
 
Posts: 544
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Nairobi, Kenya, Kenya.
Report Post
Default RE: Not discussing Sex in marriage can lead ... - 04-29-2004, 12:49 PM

Paul did say (And as a suggestion and not as a law)in 1 cor that the wives own the Husbands body and vice versa.. And that to deny the patner ,except for ashort time,and for a mutually acceptable reason (eg a fast )is not good..
many May disregard their Patners in the Interest Of a More spiritual walk and End Up doing the Opposite...By dishonoring the wife a Husbands prayers can actually be shut Out by God...
 
Reply With Quote
(#3 (permalink))
Old
Moderator
Thinker is an unknown quantity at this point
 
Posts: 1,943
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: .
Report Post
Default RE: Not discussing Sex in marriage can lead ... - 04-30-2004, 09:17 AM

People who do not discuss sex freely before marriage are unlikely to do the same after.

:-)
"Due to complaints from KSCPCA and other animal fanatics, I shall henceforth only eat meat from animals that have commited suicide"

And then there was life: BACK FROM THE DEAD :: http://geocities.com/roomthinker
 
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On






SEO by vBSEO 3.1.0