A man who buys gold necklace as a birthday present for his mum,and grabs a diamond ear-rings as well for his wife just to avoid jealousy induced whinings and squabblings with his wife.e.g Oh sijuwi mbona umenunulia mama zawadi ya garama na mimi umenisahau...
Did such a man employ wisdom or maturity?
"A Life Without Purpose Is A
Life That Has Been Abused"
That is not a good wife.
It's a birthday present for his mum for crying out loud.
She's just an insecure and jealous woman.
The man is just being wise. Poor him.
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A man who buys gold necklace as a birthday present for his mum,and grabs a diamond ear-rings as well for his wife just to avoid jealousy induced whinings and squabblings with his wife.e.g Oh sijuwi mbona umenunulia mama zawadi ya garama na mimi umenisahau...
I don't understand the swahili parts of the story but going by what sdolphin said, I take it she also wanted the necklace? or she thought the necklace was more expensive than her earrings? lol
I wouldn't say she's a bad wife necessarily, but she is jealous and probably insecure. Guys generally have a strong bond with their mothers so being a wife she is just painfully aware that waging a war with the mother-in-law is a battle she may loose. The solution? Her man just needs to reassure her that he's still in love with her as his wife and he loves his mom so they have different roles in his life.
The swahili bit says why buy your mum an expensive gift and you didn't get me one as well.
Getting involved in squabbles over whom your husband loves more, you or his mum, will never have a happy ending. This never manifests itself later in a r/ship so you either learn to live with it or just walk away.
Actually now that i think about, i wouldn't get involved with a man who felt he was in competion with my mum/dad for my love or attention.
superiority complex, her sister, inferiority complex, are one and the same malice. Part manifested thereof is solely dependent on the persons that are in the vicinity
The swahili bit says why buy your mum an expensive gift and you didn't get me one as well.
Getting involved in squabbles over whom your husband loves more, you or his mum, will never have a happy ending. This never manifests itself later in a r/ship so you either learn to live with it or just walk away.
Actually now that i think about, i wouldn't get involved with a man who felt he was in competion with my mum/dad for my love or attention.
exactly ,and what credit do we owe the man? wisdom or maturity in dealing with the matter.
"A Life Without Purpose Is A
Life That Has Been Abused"
exactly ,and what credit do we owe the man? wisdom or maturity in dealing with the matter.
Maybe wisdom, but i don't think it was wise of him to decide this is how he's going to live the rest of his.
Till death do us part is loooong time.
So i guess i'll go with maturity although i did say wisdom earlier.
superiority complex, her sister, inferiority complex, are one and the same malice. Part manifested thereof is solely dependent on the persons that are in the vicinity
Maturity or Wisdom -
09-19-2008, 12:21 PM
The solution? Her man just needs to reassure her that he's still in love with her as his wife and he loves his mom so they have different roles in his life.
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