Kissing is not like being a computer expert.........its a whole process that depends on your [both of you] emotions, feelings, and circumstances.
A horny kiss is the one that is hurriedly given as one fumbles with the zipper to set free the man to go for his normal swimming session. Here its good to provide the lubricants for the mouths[some saliva is cool], kwani whaddaya expect, if your lips are as rough as sand paper, i will need to lubricate them before planting my mouth on yours.
But other kisses are sooo sensual, inadvertent, smooth, but firm.......alternating from fast to slow, from possessive to just a lick on the lips, with a twirl of the tongue in cheeck [not literary]
I like this particular type, where you just brush your lips against hers, and get as horny as hell, or just listening to the breathing as the lips brush against each other............
a kiss is a process, so instead of generalizing, try to understand why your particular kissers chose to ensure that they oil your mouth first.
