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Originally Posted by Ester
As a woman, he would earn major points coz it shows that he's not interested in just getting into my pants. It also shows that you respect her and view her as more than a s.ex object. Kudos, you've earned urself alot of points!!!!
actually, on further thought,... i guess it depends on what type of woman she is and what she wanted out of you: commitment vs a fling.
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This nonsense of "sex object is sooo 1990's"
When a guy is having sex with a chiq, what do you think he sees her as???????
Do you think he views her as a car? or a plane??
Of course he views her as a sex object, even when a hazi has sex with the wife, do you think he views her as a student??
Cant people stop these stereotypical beaten down lines that dont mean a thing.
When you are driving a car, do you view it as a tractor? No..its car.
For me its chiqs who are insecure who talk of disrespect sijui what. They hold on to that point of view for soo long, even when they get married, their hazis are afraid to ask for puzzi coz it will be seen as disrespect.