how did this happen????

barb · (#1 (**permalink**))

ok, this weekend one of my kitambo galfriend came to visit me, she told me that she broke up with her boyfie recently coz she cheated.....this was her storo....she met this cute jamaa at the airport, he asked for her digits and she was like what the hell, its just my number am not sleeping with him, after two days he calls, and wants to know if they can hang out, and she was like, there is no harm there we are just hanging out, so she goes out and they...well hang out...after hanging out, he walks her home and kisses her....not a big deal, she thought, and she promised herself not to let it go any further and to confess that she has a boyfie the next time they meet, so the next time fikas, but before she had a chance to tell him, they were in bed together, moaning and groaning.... and she told me, actually lemme quote it in her own words 'i dont know what happened, one thing lead to another and well i was in bed with him'.........sad, i know........so this got me thinking, at what point does infidelity start??? at what point do you decide that things have gone far enough.....is it at the moment he asks for your phone number or when he is undoing your bra????

moveon · (#2 (**permalink**))

The moment you give out your name!!

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Originally Posted by barb

ok, this weekend one of my kitambo galfriend came to visit me, she told me that she broke up with her boyfie recently coz she cheated.....this was her storo....she met this cute jamaa at the airport, he asked for her digits and she was like what the hell, its just my number am not sleeping with him, after two days he calls, and wants to know if they can hang out, and she was like, there is no harm there we are just hanging out, so she goes out and they...well hang out...after hanging out, he walks her home and kisses her....not a big deal, she thought, and she promised herself not to let it go any further and to confess that she has a boyfie the next time they meet, so the next time fikas, but before she had a chance to tell him, they were in bed together, moaning and groaning.... and she told me, actually lemme quote it in her own words 'i dont know what happened, one thing lead to another and well i was in bed with him'.........sad, i know........so this got me thinking, at what point does infidelity start??? at what point do you decide that things have gone far enough.....is it at the moment he asks for your phone number or when he is undoing your bra????

Buster- · (#3 (**permalink**))

I can bet you your friend is younger than 24, thats what women that age do, sleep around then think. She will outgrow it... and infidelity is all about intention, giving your number to someone coz he is cute is the first step in cheating..

barb · (#4 (**permalink**))

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The moment you give out your name!!

well put moveon

barb · (#5 (**permalink**))

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I can bet you your friend is younger than 24, thats what women that age do, sleep around then think. She will outgrow it... and infidelity is all about intention, giving your number to someone coz he is cute is the first step in cheating..

actually she is 26.

realistpolitico · (#6 (**permalink**))

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actually she is 26.

Andika for masistas pekee n save us the agony of reading thru all that feminist ****.Peana cargo roho safi, ama ukae, no one gives a rats *ss.

Swahilijoe · (#7 (**permalink**))

Your gal is not ready to be in a relationship...she was just not into her boyfie...when you ever open your mouth and give out your name and digits then you are not satisfied and you are looking for more that what you get at home.
So how is this stranger supposed to trust her after he knows she cheated on her man with him..he knows she is loose and i dont think he will stick around for long...and 26 is an age when a woman should know what she wants in life...bard talk to your gal ..its a risky world out there.

barb · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Andika for masistas pekee n save us the agony of reading thru all that feminist ****.Peana cargo roho safi, ama ukae, no one gives a rats *ss.

you know i just realized that you are such a dumb ass, gosh, the depth of your ignorance, and intellectual capacity to see things beyond your d**k is frightening......am sad for you and the people who have to deal with you in real life.

Devine · (#9 (**permalink**))

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Your gal is not ready to be in a relationship...she was just not into her boyfie...when you ever open your mouth and give out your name and digits then you are not satisfied and you are looking for more that what you get at home.

You said it SJ, Barb u'r friend should not feel guilty, she was missing s'thing in her relationship so she stepped out. What she should have done is end one relationship before starting another, sometimes u'r subconscious pushes u to do what u can't face consciously. Life goes on.

realistpolitico · (#10 (**permalink**))

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you know i just realized that you are such a dumb ass, gosh, the depth of your ignorance, and intellectual capacity to see things beyond your d**k is frightening......am sad for you and the people who have to deal with you in real life.

l told you am a fre*ckin proud bachelor,no one deals with me in life and am gonna second myself here, peana mkebe au ukae nayo,hatubebani.