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Default 07-10-2008, 12:17 PM

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n anyway who is he to b setting the standard for the rest of us.....
I hope you didn't take it seriously. Si you know the work of comedians?
 
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Default 07-10-2008, 12:22 PM

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I hope you didn't take it seriously. Si you know the work of comedians?
Not at all..if anything i was worried abt u ,u seem to b his fan...u know what i mean..
 


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Default 07-10-2008, 12:37 PM

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Good question....someone who had picked up a transvestite on hollywood blvd, and claimed he was being a "good samaritan". Yet he bypassed so many other prostitutes along the Blvd but didn't play "good samaritan" with them. PLEASE!!

@ Poster Boy....speak for yourself! Can't blame you, afterall you are the same boy from hell that encouraged his friend to cheat and hence pick up herpes which he later transmitted to his fiancee.

The bottom line is most men can't handle finding out their gf/wife is cheating, especially those who are cheaters themselves. It's almost always about the ego for such men. And they are very insecure especially when their gf/wife is very beautiful and gets compliments from other men. As a woman, I would not cheat for revenge b/c I will be hurting myself in the process and reduce myself to his level. Taking some time to think, plan properly(especially if kids are involved) and walk out of the marriage/relationship will be the move I make. Till this point, I have never worked out things with a cheating man, so I highly doubt I will begin to do that after marriage. I forgive but we just can't be anything like friends. You go on with your life, and I with mine.
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Default 07-10-2008, 12:57 PM

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Huh? What's this reality?
 
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Huh? What's this reality?
give it time
 
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give it time
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reality will dawn one day
nini mbaya na madame siku hizi.Jamaa,l dont care how freakin beautiful you are kuna wengi my dear,as a matter of fact nikiwa na mia tatu nitapiga corner kstreet nitoke na some yellow yellow brown brown brown thighs and then l send you a pic and then u tell me ,if can top it beatch,
 
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nini mbaya na madame siku hizi.Jamaa,l dont care how freakin beautiful you are kuna wengi my dear,as a matter of fact nikiwa na mia tatu nitapiga corner kstreet nitoke na some yellow yellow brown brown brown thighs and then l send you a pic and then u tell me ,if can top it beatch,
just try to grow up..it helps
 


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Default 07-11-2008, 02:36 AM

I have always wondered about this same issue. When men are cheating on their significant others - it is ok ... and so long as they are not caught. Lakiniwacha asikie ati his significant other ameruka fence. Eish, even the extinct species of birds, animals, trees and flowers will be woken up fromtheir slumber. Yaani ... there will be a massive wave utashangaa.

Of the topic, whatever happened to the member who goes by this handle - shangaa!
 


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Default 07-11-2008, 03:20 AM

Women get frustrated a lot coz they try too much to change things that can't be changed!! You worry too much.

On the subject at hand, are we talking about a wife or just a gurl from the hood? I need clarification on that to reply.
 


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