Speaking of cheating...

majicfox · (#1 (**permalink**))

Tis the season for partners to cheat it seems...so yes,my finance cheated, no affair for him, he simply went and had a 'pick up' (who was'nt a langa). I forgave him and we proceeded with our relationship, as it were.

two weeks later and my mind cant stop torturing me with images of him f***ing that other mama (i dont know her and he claims he was too drunk to remember) I now realize just how deeply hurt i am by the kisanga

. Worse still, he claims he loves me and is regretful of it but i really dont see any remorse.

However, just like any other love story, i still love the dude (idiotic as it may sound)... pray tell...is it ever possible to forgive n forget that your spouse once cheated on u?

masikinijeuri bin sukari · (#2 (**permalink**))

Learn the truth and let him confess
Seee the other mamaaa
Confront her with the truth
If he is lying to get ahead with you ; then think of ur future with him
But forgive whatever you may learn out of the findings
Talk it over with him dot probe for details
Give your self time to be apart to think it over
Talk with someone you can trust
Or talk it over here; there someof us who are ready to help as myself I'm healing fromthaose scenes crossing my mind
Pray for the both of you
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Genuwine · (#3 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by majicfox

Tis the season for partners to cheat it seems...so yes,my finance cheated, no affair for him, he simply went and had a 'pick up' (who was'nt a langa). I forgave him and we proceeded with our relationship, as it were.

two weeks later and my mind cant stop torturing me with images of him f***ing that other mama (i dont know her and he claims he was too drunk to remember) I now realize just how deeply hurt i am by the kisanga

. Worse still, he claims he loves me and is regretful of it but i really dont see any remorse.

However, just like any other love story, i still love the dude (idiotic as it may sound)... pray tell...is it ever possible to forgive n forget that your spouse once cheated on u?

Haki nakwambia....kipendacho roho ula nyama mbichi

Shyloxx26 · (#4 (**permalink**))

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moveon · (#5 (**permalink**))

Its ok for a man to cheat but for a lady,no!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
I mean BIG NO!!!!!

masikinijeuri bin sukari · (#6 (**permalink**))

How wrong you think you are man!?

Its not OK both ways!

Waithera Cherono Akoth · (#7 (**permalink**))

if a man cheats on u jus take a hike miss lady.....,!..,
this vyb of i cant even rememba her name is bull crap...,
he did it once and hel do it agen...,
jus rememba always tht u deserve beta than that....,aiiight!!1

okiedokes · (#8 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Waithera Cherono Akoth

if a man cheats on u jus take a hike miss lady.....,!..,
this vyb of i cant even rememba her name is bull crap...,
he did it once and hel do it agen...,
jus rememba always tht u deserve beta than that....,aiiight!!1

I second that! He is just a fiance now and he has done it, so what does it say? He's not yet ready for marriage(not that marriage will stop him anyways). Believe me you will experience the heartache again, and soon too since you readily forgave him too. You deserve better than that!

Some women are interesting, they see warning signs even before tying the knot, but for some weird reason they think it will change for better after marriage. I heard of a woman whose fiance cheated the day before the wedding and she went ahead with the wedding the next day. I tell you, there will be a lot of disappointed guests on that day b/c he'll be at the alter alone.

@moveon...remind me again why it is ok for a man to cheat but not a woman? It's wrong both ways, but I want to hear your rationale.