[Shyloxx26]

Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa

heheheheh and have you found any such man, lol I would bet this is a dying breed. Most men now are puss.ys

Thank you MUK - The male species of this century (some of them) or is it generation are the worst sissies ever. Gosh!

[m kenya]

Originally Posted by Shyloxx26

Thank you MUK - The male species of this century (some of them) or is it generation are the worst sissies ever. Gosh!

Depends on where you are looking.

Wacha kuchemka kama kuku..

[Fraglante]

Originally Posted by jajuok

Heheh Frag, naona hautaki kukaa kama mandazi. I still remember that. Anyway am looking for a mama for one colleague of mine. The jamaa is too slow he needs a mama who can make him think on his feet.

LOL Hapana! Story za kukaa kimandazi nilikataa kitambo.

No offense but that pal of yours mwenye mpaka atafutiwe is beyond help.Pole kwake.

[realistpolitico]

kisee, l think you are still leaving in the dark ages.What you are asking does not at all cross the mind of guys who are educated and civilized esp those living here in the USA.lts simple really,guys are the altimate losers in marriage recently and this is absolutely the case in all marriages in the US.Women nowadays are super aggressive,you cannot keep up with them in any faction as a single man.Coz if you r handy,u probaly have no money or u probably have a ka medium samo.So women use all these things to destroy self esteems of jamaas until they have no choice but to take the second role in the marriage(so termed as kuwekwa box).Most men are realising that they do not need all this stuff when essentially they are in the marriage for sex alone.Lets face it women use sex to make sure they have jamaas around not that they are aching for it like jamaas are.So the order of the day nowadays is kupita wit them in da clubs and dont call them thereafter or you can find yourself a whore even in states 4 30 bucks and you have already got what you want in marriage.Simple mathematics,n f*** marriage.

[realistpolitico]

Originally Posted by Shyloxx26

Thank you MUK - The male species of this century (some of them) or is it generation are the worst sissies ever. Gosh!

Am sorry gal, you gotta face it, u guys are so aggressive that men now look like sissies.Personally, am over that bullcrap of selfesteem my foot.Dinya kuro wachana na madame. Marriage is the institution for sissies ,maboyz wakuwekwa box ovyo ovyo.Marriage my *ss.

[milanya]

Originally Posted by faiyyy

The fire needs to be kept burning. What happened is that somewhere along the way, someone stopped caring. How come when you are dating, you are alwayz keen to look your best, you take time to groom yourself, ficha the bad behavior, all in the name of impressing someone, when you marry, ladies stockings on the head start appearing not to mention that they are smelly coz they've not been washed for i dont know how long. Men, the attention you used to give your wife has been taken over by a new hobby, Throwing insulting words to your dear one infront of the kids and friends, when the going gets tough, you need a shoulder to lean on, thats the time your spouse remembers that so and so is better than you. how will such a marriage survive?

Meanwhile outside you still make an effort to appear good, to impress people, they like you and become even closer friends than your spouse. You will wake up one morning and realise that you married a stranger, there is no bond to bind you anymore

Many people who are employed work mpaka retirement or are retrenched, that time they dont like what they do, but they will go for higher education so that they can get a promotion, ama look for another job, so that they can get more money. Same thing happens with the marriage, work harder.

Very well-said.

Marriage is hard work, it has to be nurtured every single day. Sadly, people nowadays are after the illusion of love and fluttering stomachs, romance and tight bodies.

They forget how little that has to do with marriage.

It is work and unselfishness.

[milanya]

Originally Posted by realistpolitico

kisee, l think you are still leaving in the dark ages.What you are asking does not at all cross the mind of guys who are educated and civilized esp those living here in the USA.lts simple really,guys are the altimate losers in marriage recently and this is absolutely the case in all marriages in the US.Women nowadays are super aggressive,you cannot keep up with them in any faction as a single man.Coz if you r handy,u probaly have no money or u probably have a ka medium samo.So women use all these things to destroy self esteems of jamaas until they have no choice but to take the second role in the marriage(so termed as kuwekwa box).Most men are realising that they do not need all this stuff when essentially they are in the marriage for sex alone.Lets face it women use sex to make sure they have jamaas around not that they are aching for it like jamaas are.So the order of the day nowadays is kupita wit them in da clubs and dont call them thereafter or you can find yourself a whore even in states 4 30 bucks and you have already got what you want in marriage.Simple mathematics,n f*** marriage.

I do agree, that a lot of problems with marriage have to do with the so-called feminist movement. I say "so-called" because true feminism is about women having the freedom to choose, not tearing men down and shunning anything remotely feminine.

It's funny I thought the U.S.A. was so backwards when it came to family, but in Southern California, several of the women who live here are traditional stay at home moms who cook and clean and take care of the kids, run a mile every morning and get their hair and nails done to look good for their husbands.

I'm traditional, I don't believe in emasculation, and I intend to keep y husband, interested, happy and satisfied.

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by milanya

I do agree, that a lot of problems with marriage have to do with the so-called feminist movement. I say "so-called" because true feminism is about women having the freedom to choose, not tearing men down and shunning anything remotely feminine.

It's funny I thought the U.S.A. was so backwards when it came to family, but in Southern California, several of the women who live here are traditional stay at home moms who cook and clean and take care of the kids, run a mile every morning and get their hair and nails done to look good for their husbands.

I'm traditional, I don't believe in emasculation, and I intend to keep y husband, interested, happy and satisfied.

Most of the Orange county women are trophy wives(see "The Real Housewives of Orange County"). They stay home, hire a cook(sometimes), work out, do nails, hair, and have breast augmentations as b-day presents for their husbands, etc.

It's not necessarily that they are traditional, more like their men make the upper end of 6 figure salaries and there's no point in them going out to work. Besides their job is to look good all day. Interesting enough, with all the fake boobs, hymen reconstruction(to become virgins again ) their men still cheat.

@Milanya...hopefully your man also intends to do same, 'cos it has to be mutual for it to work.

[Real Talk]

Originally Posted by milanya

I do agree, that a lot of problems with marriage have to do with the so-called feminist movement..

EHHNN!!.....Guess again...

[OOWITI]

Originally Posted by milanya

I do agree, that a lot of problems with marriage have to do with the so-called feminist movement. I say "so-called" because true feminism is about women having the freedom to choose, not tearing men down and shunning anything remotely feminine.

It's funny I thought the U.S.A. was so backwards when it came to family, but in Southern California, several of the women who live here are traditional stay at home moms who cook and clean and take care of the kids, run a mile every morning and get their hair and nails done to look good for their husbands.

I'm traditional, I don't believe in emasculation, and I intend to keep y husband, interested, happy and satisfied.

True a good guy always brings out the best in a woman.this are the lucky women who have married a guy like me who respects women.the same woman married to an abusive man can do the same things at home and get verbal insults and marital sex rape,violence and of course how can she be a house wife and do her nails if her husband is financially abusive? in your case with this women in southern california it is a true examhttp://www.soencouragement.org/domesticviolence.htm ple of what a responsible loving and caring husband contributes to the community=a safe environment for his wife and children.Bravo to all those loving husbands in southern california.