[a.k.a]

Originally Posted by Bridgette

I was reading this thread on my phone and couldn’t wait to come and chip in.submission to me is being second to your husband.not trying to outdo him in any manner but rather acknowledging that he is the head of the household (me and our children, our finances etc).being second to him doesn’t mean taking a back seat in how the family is run but rather doing my bit to give him and bring up well mannered children. Encouraging him and helping him to be the best man that he can be.to do everything in my power to bring out the best in him.make him feel like a king.the number one in my life (some may call that stroking his ego).
Submission is being his best friend, yet looking up to him for guidance.passing every important decision through him for guidance/approval.letting him take on all the masculine roles in the family.something close to what TDA said.
To do all these, a woman needs to be wholly and completely inlove with that man in question.

am teary.......

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by salutes

I noticed that the okie dogs character represents the brainwashed type of women that thinks that since they have read afew books, then they are no obliged to respect the natural course of things as set out by God and nature.The give women feminists and the fight for gender empowerment a bad name indeed..
Biblical Fact: Women are advised to submit to their husbands......but men are also expected to 'respect' their wives.
This is a two way process, but it begins by the woman surrendering her will to his man, the man is not expected to misuse this gesture, but needs to respect the wife. Very easy issue, the man is the head of the household, but the wife supports him in the discharge of his duties.... (hata kama hana job, he remains the head of the home)
Women like Okiedogs, juu wamesoma vitabu vichache, wanacopy lifestyles za watu kwa masoap operas na kuanza kuinsist on a 50-50 in their homes. Ati nikifua leo, bwana afue nguo kesho...... No No No.
Sustaining a marriage is not easy, with attitudes like these women are contributing to the fragmentation of the structure of society....Gradually, this obsession with women independence is leading us towards sodom and gommorah, the family as a unit is under attack from characters who ape western things without examining what they imply to the real African setting. This is just wrong.
These women are getting lost, and draging society down with them....The natural obligations of different sexes can't be switched, ati a man aget pregnant and stuff. Respect massive is what we need guys.

Nappy head! Make your point and f*ck off, otherwise go get circumsized first!!!

[stunner]

Originally Posted by okiedokes

Nappy head! Make your point and f*ck off, otherwise go get circumsized first!!!

LMAO!! you know it is prudent behaviour to bow out of the conversation/argument once you have exhausted all your points...not hang around and skew matapiko all over the WWW. Niaje bana? Chill out.

[Bridgette]

Originally Posted by a.k.a

am teary.......

Oooooooohhh aka how sweet. a proposal in public? let me wipe off your tears

[a.k.a]

Originally Posted by Bridgette

Oooooooohhh aka how sweet. a proposal in public? let me wipe off your tears

omg,am crying now.ma mistake, i will propose in private .

[salutes]

Originally Posted by okiedokes

nappy head! make your point and f*ck off, otherwise go get circumsized first!!!

i think this okie something needs someone to shag some sense into her bored head, yeah...some real good pounding will bring her back to reality how in the hecks name does she ask me to go get circumcised, as if she has seeen my very nice abdalla(bab kanush) for your infor, it is cut, unless you want to cut it again. By the way, you do not deserve half my baba kanush, it has some dignity. It only serves dignified women who have something btwn their ears, and can't fathom foull mouthed empty headed witches like you. Shove something hard into your pundesh right now, or shut the your stinking puci up. If you hate what i have just said, remember, you have absolutely nothing to do about it.