At what age does a girl begin to want a boy sexually

bible_reader · (#1 (**permalink**))

My friend has 12 years old girl and want to begin counselling but not sure if that is the right age.Generations have changed and advise is needed.At what age does the man desire in a girl begin?

african hotty · (#2 (**permalink**))

As soon as her hormones start ticking,puberty,peer pressure and all the other distractions in this world.

Seek to advise her....do not frighten her.Teach her

fiery_preacher · (#3 (**permalink**))

Immediately you notice she gets shy in the presence of men just know she has hit the threshold commence counselling immediatelly.

msema ukweli Kabisa · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by bible_reader

My friend has 12 years old girl and want to begin counselling but not sure if that is the right age.Generations have changed and advise is needed.At what age does the man desire in a girl begin?

what do you mean by that question. the best way to phrase it would be, when are young people sexually aware,

and I would answer, puberty. Although puberty age is getting lower and lower esp in western countries.

using the analogy desire makes it a very sick question

kenyansenorita · (#5 (**permalink**))

At what age does a girl begin to want a boy sexually? at 13

okiedokes · (#6 (**permalink**))

Some experts advice that sex education be taught an an earlier age, starting around 8 yrs of age. In north america, I would definitely start at 8 yrs of age but make it simple enough for him/her to understand. Back in Africa, may be around 10 yrs of age will do. Your friend should seek advice from the family doc, therapist, etc to learn how to broach the subject without making the child feel uncomfortable.

The point is to make the child realise they shouldn't be sexually active at such a young age but not make sex something that is nasty. This will also open communication lines and just in case the child is already active, they may admit it then which will send the parent raving mad ofcourse, but at least you can get her on contraception, or advice the boy to use condoms always.

I was told at 9 yrs of age before going to boarding school, "if you play with boys, you will get a baby". Period! That was enough to scare the bejesus out of me and I took the advice literally. LMAO!!! I mean i hated being friends with boys b/c of it, and with time I understood what "play" meant and it kept me grounded.