[mo-uk]

Originally Posted by barb

i have so many things to say abt this topic but what's the point??? all it boils down is a woman's decision, what kind of example do you want to set for your kids specifically your daughter(s), i mean if she asks you what's the point of going to school only to end up cleaning the house, cooking n what not, what are you gonna say? i did it coz i wanted to make your daddy feel like a man? there good working moms, my mum is one of them, and thousands of other working moms, so all this sh*t ati you cant work and be a good mum is bull crap, and women who are supporting this need to reevaluate themselves, you want to be a stay home then more power to you, do it coz you want to 2 not because a man asks you 2 or tradition demands you 2 do it. Tradition is good, so is change. By the way here are some tradition, those who insist on keeping tradition, get a handle of this
--its believed that traditionally and naturally men are inclined not to be monogamous
--its also believed that men need to learn how not to rape, rape is something inborn in them, they have to learn not to do it......you want to dispute this???? i have proof.
yep, tradition rocks!!!!!

There is so much I want and I guarantee you being stay home mum 24/7 isnt my ideal future life. I strongly like the idea of balance. I would like to work and yet at the same time I would like to be a mother, be there for my children soforth.
Question? Are you saying staying home building a family isnt contributing to the community? How is that different from having a job? I thought it was the mothers job to raise a harmonious family. Isnt having a strong family with manners and not contributing to society? Perhaps in the future it will be those children that will change the world.

[barb]

Originally Posted by mo-uk

There is so much I want and I guarantee you being stay home mum 24/7 isnt my ideal future life. I strongly like the idea of balance. I would like to work and yet at the same time I would like to be a mother, be there for my children soforth.
Question? Are you saying staying home building a family isnt contributing to the community? How is that different from having a job? I thought it was the mothers job to raise a harmonious family. Isnt having a strong family with manners and not contributing to society? Perhaps in the future it will be those children that will change the world.

i never said that moms who chose to be stay home moms dont work, that is like the hardest job a woman can ever love, but they should do it coz they want to, not coz a man told them to, or society demands them to, it should be their decision.