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Default Most common mistake - 05-16-2008, 05:20 AM

In your opinion what is the most commonly commited mistake in a relationship?

Me thinks it is "lying."
 


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Default 05-16-2008, 05:41 AM

the belief by women that the more you continue to bang her, the more you love her, NOT TO FORGET their other illusion that married men bang out because they dont love their wives
 
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Default 05-16-2008, 05:41 AM

me thinks
1. its saying you love someone only when they are already gone.
2.failing to know that the other person is like a bird and can fly away when they want.
 


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Default 05-16-2008, 05:49 AM

chics - being clingy n not having a life of your own
guyz - insensitivity. It will cause so many other problems! The minute she doesn't get emotional fulfilment in the relationship, then that's when she'll start seeking it elsewhere.
 
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Default 05-16-2008, 06:06 AM

Thinking that because you got things to hide, the other party must be hiding things too.
 


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Default 05-16-2008, 06:23 AM

not being ready to commit into the relationship.
overpossessiveness.
 


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Default teach - 05-16-2008, 06:32 AM

guyz - insensitivity. It will cause so many other problems! The minute she doesn't get emotional fulfilment in the relationship, then that's when she'll start seeking it elsewhere.[/quote]

Don't blame it on men always,sometimes women call spade a giant spoon.A man might want to absorb your emotions only if expressed in a sensitive way
 


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Default 05-16-2008, 07:14 AM

OBSESSIVENESS,POSSESIVENESS and IMMATURITY
 
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Default 05-16-2008, 07:42 AM

-dishonesty
-lack of communication
-taking each other for granted
-unfaithfulness
-possessiveness

women - forgetting you are still a wife and not just a mother when you have kids. The men appreciate what you do for the kids but they still like some lovin'.

men - thinking the woman is old, or old fashioned(after giving birth) and her 'goods' are now on the clearance i.e no longer appealing. I hear women reach their prime at 40, so guys you just may not know what y'all are missing.

the list goes on....
 
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Default 05-16-2008, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by okiedokes View Post

-dishonesty
-lack of communication
-taking each other for granted
-unfaithfulness
-possessiveness
Great list; I think you've touched on almost everything.
To that I'll add expecting him/her to be like you, putting pressure (any kind) on your partner, holding grudges long after he/she apologizes etc...
 
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