Genuwine,
A threesome is very exciting but be warned it can ruin relationships. Don’t be fooled, there is nothing like “one off”. Unless the three of you are extremely disciplined.
Allow me to give some scenarios. Those days when I used to be adventurous, I had a bi girl pal. Before it came down to a threesome, we had a number of girl on girl encounters. You can actually say the man in the picture here was the 3rd wheel. This scenario was ideal because there were no male/female emotional ties. The deed was done and it was good, clean, no mess after that. Or so we thought.
The man here was my girls FB and he decided he no longer wants her without me anymore. Needless to say whatever they had came to an end after enough drama. He even went to the extent of ‘stealing’ my number from her phone behind her back and started vibing me. Loyalty to my girl didn’t allow me to give in.(too much Info) He gave up eventually. My girl and I are still pals, we have grown, we have done that been there so now we are no longer adventurous. We are normal level headed ladies in serious relationships.
Scenario number two (hypothetical) A pal is extremely freakish. We are both in serious relationships. We realize we have a crush on the same guy and rather than compete we decide to share. Ofcourse the sir in question doesn’t know about this. We are just going to both hit on him and let him know its ok for him to vibe us both simultaneously. We shall give him the time of his life then when its all said and done sit him down and explain what just happened. After that, we can revert to our normal phone numbers and life goes on.
Scenario number three. Fiance/hubby to be occasionally suffers bouts of lesbian sex and threesome fantasies. I am completely sure he is the man to marry, settle down with and have his babies. Aint no way am letting him sleep with another woman in my presence. No way am letting him see the mother of his children in such a situation. I can fan his fantasies but never never ever allow such debauchery into our marital bed. I make that clear from the word go.
@ Genuine, you can have the threesome but not with your wife to be. And if you do, make sure she never finds out. Have an exit plan to keep the 2 girls away from you and yours and finally, don’t get used to it, be disciplined.
FYI whether she is a lawyer or not, she is still a woman with normal 'woman feelings'... the whole package.Her profession will not exempt her from that nor make her any more emotionally stronger than other women.All the best.
05-15-2008, 03:50 AM
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