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Default Ladies. . . ? - 05-12-2008, 03:37 PM

I do not understand why some of you can't carry condoms on you?
I hate buying stuff for myself and yet dont even get to use them!!

How many of you actually carry them in those bags of yours?
And if you dont carry, why not?
 


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I do not understand why some of you can't carry condoms on you?
I hate buying stuff for myself and yet dont even get to use them!!

How many of you actually carry them in those bags of yours?
And if you dont carry, why not?
ok am no a lady, but am confused,
are you mad coz you carry condoms and dont get to use them,

or because some ladies refuse to carry condoms?
or because the guys always seem to have the on and as a results you dont get to use your condoms???, lol
 

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ok am no a lady, but am confused,
are you mad coz you carry condoms and dont get to use the,

or because some ladies refuse to carry condoms?
or because the guys always seem to have the on and as a results you dont get to use your condoms???, lol
Hahaha i buy condoms that get used by some other chicks because her or her partner has none on them.
I know almost all guys have condoms on them so the guys are forgiven but the chick could also make herself useful and have some with her.
 


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Default 05-12-2008, 04:05 PM

Ladies you should always carry and use your own protection...your own condoms that you bought...I have heard horror stories of these men who prick them with pins and stuff!

If i was straight i would carry mine, not only that i would put it on for him too. I mean i carry around my own dental dams...or cling film if i am broke!!!
so girl who do girls you should carry your own dental dams too!!!
 
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Ladies you should always carry and use your own protection...your own condoms that you bought...I have heard horror stories of these men who prick them with pins and stuff!

If i was straight i would carry mine, not only that i would put it on for him too. I mean i carry around my own dental dams...or cling film if i am broke!!!
so girl who do girls you should carry your own dental dams too!!!
Pins and stuff?
Are you serious? . . . Damn!

You Bi or full Les?
Damn i think thats brave and cool of you to be honest with that shyyt!
Big ups right there!

So Cling film is put to good use too outside the usual stuff, hmm
I sure as hell didnt know. . . .


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Ladies you should always carry and use your own protection...your own condoms that you bought...I have heard horror stories of these men who prick them with pins and stuff!
Forgive me but the above statement seems highly unlikely if not impossible. Why on Earth would a man prick a condom? I know very few men who are interested in "tricking a woman into becoming pregnant"? In fact I have never heard of a man who has done that.

Personally, I recommend that the gentlemen always carry their own protection should they decide to go out. We tend to lead the proceedings, so we should assume responsibility. Plus, it's way more likely that a woman will prick a condom to lock down a man of substance and no child should come into this world as a result of deception and lies me thinks.

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Default 05-12-2008, 04:30 PM

Kuongea ukweli, I used to carry condoms some years ago (I forget) , infact the last full, unused pack, I don't know who stole it from my apartment. I have always wanted to know who it was! Kitambo when I was sexually active/suggestive, I'd always have one in every clutch purse (lol) and like you, the "half of them were borrowed by friends, some even knocking on my door at midnite (wafrica wana mambo) It was necessary, and leaving home without them or just being at home without them was like an old lady leaving her dentures at home. (sina dentures wala)


Nowdays, I don't carry them anymore, coz I am 100% sure I'm not going to be having sex or even acompanying any man anywhere, neither do I get hopelessly drunk or go to wild parties, I also don't let men visit my place unless its a school mate, after thorougly confirming their need to visit (school related) . Carrying condoms to me would be like an amputee buying shoes... a waste. I could carry them but seeing as I always bought the most expensive condoms available.. every time I want to buy some, I convince myself that they will just go to waste and find a better way to use the money like buy a top on sale

A few years ago on mashada, we had some discussion about whether carrying condoms is suggestive of ones intentions or possibilities of having sex, or just being cautious. I think that every lady should buy and carry a 12 pack. I live in such a quiet environment, and a while back when I had decided to practice abstinence, not carrying condoms was just a short test to prove my committment to my cause. After I was sure I would not be having sex, I was planning on carrying them again, but honestly I either forgot or postponed or over looked the idea.

However when I get on that plane to go back home, I think I'll even strap some on the inside of my under wear and stash some in my panty hose.. just incase
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Forgive me but the above statement seems highly unlikely if not impossible. Why on Earth would a man prick a condom? I know very few men who are interested in "tricking a woman into becoming pregnant"? In fact I have never heard of a man who has done that.

Personally, I recommend that the gentlemen always carry their own protection should they decide to go out. We tend to lead the proceedings, so we should assume responsibility. Plus, it's way more likely that a woman will prick a condom to lock down a man of substance and no child should come into this world as a result of deception and lies me thinks.

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I know of a chic who was thorougly scouting for "mapaper" back in the day, by way of getting pregnant, and one of her confessions was that women normally take the condom after use and stuff the contents in their vagina. Amazing but for some reason I believed her. She was advicing a fellow chic who had tried everything but her jungu would not have sex with her without a condom. After the suggestion , the girl in need went on to explain that for such reasons, men usually tie and dispose the condoms themselves ! So I think men should be careful, and women as well if your husband is the cheating type, he may have children out there after being tricked. (dunno if it works or not, I just know anything is possible) Needless to say both of them have children with those men, only they got pregnant after the men "let it happen, the honest way"
 


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Default 05-12-2008, 04:37 PM

Daaaamn Sanaa!!
Hehehe lovely post!
That was a very interesting read.
Now i know what i should do when in a relationship or Abstaining!
But these days shops funga late and they normally have good ones at those petrol station on the highways anyways . . . temptation can be strong at times!


I know what you mean about using the money for something else!
If only money grew on trees.

So some airplane action? Haha

Btw we need to tlak
 


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Default 05-12-2008, 04:55 PM

Lol lol...I am full les...
yep cling film does have its uses... you dont wanna end up with sores in your mouth lol(you never know where someone's been hey).

Lol yep we can be Mashada best mates lol

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Pins and stuff?
Are you serious? . . . Damn!

You Bi or full Les?
Damn i think thats brave and cool of you to be honest with that shyyt!
Big ups right there!

So Cling film is put to good use too outside the usual stuff, hmm
I sure as hell didnt know. . . .


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