[unclebob]

one of my galfriends has been hooked. the man in her life has turned into a control fleak. he literally wants to drive her like a bus. he wants to know why so n so said hi, who she was with on the fone when he called bla bla bla...... since i am a close confidante, she informs me of this man's shenanigans. what advice to give her? the man is 35 the gal is 33

[carolecarole]

Originally Posted by unclebob

one of my galfriends has been hooked. the man in her life has turned into a control fleak. he literally wants to drive her like a bus. he wants to know why so n so said hi, who she was with on the fone when he called bla bla bla...... since i am a close confidante, she informs me of this man's shenanigans. what advice to give her? the man is 35 the gal is 33

????HII INAMEAN?Tell her at 33,no one has a right to control her life like that!Ahepe haraka sana ama the next thing is that her phone will be confiscated n she will be locked up in the hau..That is an insecure man who means no good to the gal...AWASHANE NAYE!

[moveon]

They are too hold for advise.
Divorce is a better word!

Originally Posted by unclebob

one of my galfriends has been hooked. the man in her life has turned into a control fleak. he literally wants to drive her like a bus. he wants to know why so n so said hi, who she was with on the fone when he called bla bla bla...... since i am a close confidante, she informs me of this man's shenanigans. what advice to give her? the man is 35 the gal is 33

[wanaume]

Originally Posted by unclebob

one of my galfriends has been hooked. the man in her life has turned into a control fleak. he literally wants to drive her like a bus. he wants to know why so n so said hi, who she was with on the fone when he called bla bla bla...... since i am a close confidante, she informs me of this man's shenanigans. what advice to give her? the man is 35 the gal is 33

Na anafanya nini na nyang'ande kama huyo??? Si angekuwa ameenda kitambo. When you say hooked, is it girlfriend/boyfriend thing, ama marriage?? Coz if its marriage, i don know wat she was doing during dating. Control freaks are control freaks hata sunday

[sdolphin]

I don't understand what the problem is. If she's not happy she should leave.
Aaii and at her age shouldn't she know better?

[supuu22]

Originally Posted by sdolphin

I don't understand what the problem is. If she's not happy she should leave.
Aaii and at her age shouldn't she know better?

those r signs of abuse..tell ure buddy to run and never look back before its too late. such people confuse love with obsession. They consider u as their property. Those r the type who would kill for love. Their mentality is if they can't have u no one else will............

[Mildred Chenane]

tell ua galf to leave tha man alone......n move on with her life!
no woman is a slave to a man!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[stunner]

I opened this one thinking it would be another case of "my ngoflend was ndinywod"

[sdolphin]

Originally Posted by supuu22

those r signs of abuse..tell ure buddy to run and never look back before its too late. such people confuse love with obsession. They consider u as their property. Those r the type who would kill for love. Their mentality is if they can't have u no one else will............

I get his problem.
What's her excuse? If she doesn't like the sort of person he is why is she still with him?

[poko-hunter]

Originally Posted by unclebob

one of my galfriends has been hooked. the man in her life has turned into a control fleak. he literally wants to drive her like a bus. he wants to know why so n so said hi, who she was with on the fone when he called bla bla bla...... since i am a close confidante, she informs me of this man's shenanigans. what advice to give her? the man is 35 the gal is 33

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