Is it wrong to date an older chic?

[mycalian]

I am a young dude (less than 20) and most of the ladies that I get are older (over 23 and above) and i feel odd going for ladies younger than me coz most of them are in secondary school and I finished school 3 years ago.The problem arises when the ladies who are older than me want to know my age and I have to lie but i see like if I have to say the truth I will live without a girlfriend what do I do?

[grip_daddy]

1. Wait until your girls are through with high school.

2. Take courage and say your age during the occasions. Be ready for breakups because at 20-23 some girls still feel intimidated when their peers laugh at how immature their boy friends are. She might call it quite.

3. Wait and think nothing about relationships until and if you'll want to marry. Meanwhile you might choose to go the pig's route by kutaring every pudesh you come across. You'll earn yourself few trophies from fellow men, and stupidly feel sawa.

4. You can also get a loving, mature, understanding young high school girl with a future, focused and with reasonable ambition (I have come across one 15 year old who is more upright and objective in life than some 27 and over slats). Talk to her according to her understanding, kindness and love. Be ready to protect her future and nurture her ambitions, and show her the true meaning of love and life. If you'll love her, you wont mind her being in high school. You'll be patient and wait for her. Ok yes, you can get such a beautiful woman from any age. You can truly love any age, but when too young or when age mate and older, and you have long term considerations, please put into equation the biological disadvantages you will have to live with.

5. But for short term, and this I say it's stupid and foolish, the best way to go is koinange, clubs and pubs, and never say after that good women are non existent. They that accept this type of arrangement, together with them who propose it, are idiots.

[Shyloxx26]

my dear, there are no rules to dating ... and if there are any, it's just a guide. Age is just a number. Be proud of who you are. Don't let people who don't know you make decisions for you. You know yoursef better. Kila mtu na maisha yake.

[daudi msalaba]

Originally Posted by mycalian

I am a young dude (less than 20) and most of the ladies that I get are older (over 23 and above) and i feel odd going for ladies younger than me coz most of them are in secondary school and I finished school 3 years ago.The problem arises when the ladies who are older than me want to know my age and I have to lie but i see like if I have to say the truth I will live without a girlfriend what do I do?

so something about loving an old pudesh?? Hate those cargoes as you wait for your idiots to clear high school and leave this site asap

[dotNet]

< 20-3 +cleared high skul? Which system was this?

[mycalian]

Originally Posted by dotNet

< 20-3 +cleared high skul? Which system was this?

I cleared when i was i6 and i think its very normal in 844 coz i was in class 1 when i was 5 years old and for your info i was a chop all through primo.

[dotNet]

Still doesn't add up to me. Hebu nipigie hiyo hesabu.

[mycalian]

Originally Posted by dotNet

Still doesn't add up to me. Hebu nipigie hiyo hesabu.

I went to kindergarten when i was 2 and a half then preunit and i skipped the senior nursery to class 1.So its like that and now for your trouble have you got a sister who is roughly 16, 17 ?

[nicielicious]

As long as you are happy and content with your older women, then what is the issue, as they say "age ain't nothing but a number" Even Mbugua got Wambui and they are happy from what we see on their marriage life .

Anyway, It all comes back to you if you are a man who can make it happen for your more experienced women then

[mycalian]

Originally Posted by nicielicious

As long as you are happy and content with your older women, then what is the issue, as they say "age ain't nothing but a number" Even Mbugua got Wambui and they are happy from what we see on their marriage life .

Anyway, It all comes back to you if you are a man who can make it happen for your more experienced women then

by the way all the older ladies i have dated never sensed i was younger and they had no problem with the way i conducted my self.