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Default My Girlfriend cheats on her boyfie - 03-09-2008, 03:02 PM

This girl is a mature chic and has a nice decent job in downtown Chicago Illinois. Her man is a successful guy with a Decent job.Now ma gal met this other guy and they started talking and one thing led to the other and now they are an "Item" Even though she still lives with the boyfie and sneaks out to see this guy. Her bofyie is a nice guy works hard and works late alot of times. The other guy is also well to do but not like her boyfie..the other guy makes out with her in building parking garages and also in his house .The other thing is her boyfie intends to marry her .My Question is why is she cheating on a rather decent guy, treats her well and gives her anything any woman would want?
 

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Default 03-09-2008, 04:16 PM

Why she cheats, I think

1. Bad sex or deprived--you said the other girl works too much?

2. Selfish girl

3. Adventurous-wants to know what's out there---leads to no. 2
 
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Default 03-09-2008, 04:30 PM

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This girl is a mature chic and has a nice decent job in downtown Chicago Illinois. Her man is a successful guy with a Decent job.Now ma gal met this other guy and they started talking and one thing led to the other and now they are an "Item" Even though she still lives with the boyfie and sneaks out to see this guy. Her bofyie is a nice guy works hard and works late alot of times. The other guy is also well to do but not like her boyfie..the other guy makes out with her in building parking garages and also in his house .The other thing is her boyfie intends to marry her .My Question is why is she cheating on a rather decent guy, treats her well and gives her anything any woman would want?
These topics seem to keep coming back over and over again.
WEther its the chick or the guy, we kenyans should make a job out of cheating


To answer your question:
My cousin is dating a rather rich guy who is in love with her and and i tihnk she is for some part in ove with him.
The guy gives her whatever she wants, takes her where she wants to go but still she cant stick to him.
She told me its like "övercrowding" her and she cant breath.
And maybe he isnt that much fun. . .he mgiht hav the money and all but maybe he sint really someone who talks much or basiclaly he isnt her type or is missing features of what she wants in him?
 


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Default 03-09-2008, 04:45 PM

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this girl is a mature chic and has a nice decent job in downtown chicago illinois. Her man is a successful guy with a decent job.now ma gal met this other guy and they started talking and one thing led to the other and now they are an "item" even though she still lives with the boyfie and sneaks out to see this guy. her bofyie is a nice guy works hard and works late alot of times. The other guy is also well to do but not like her boyfie..the other guy makes out with her in building parking garages and also in his house .the other thing is her boyfie intends to marry her .my question is why is she cheating on a rather decent guy, treats her well and gives her anything any woman would want?
it's simple: she cant get enough of da diiiiiiiiiiiiiick!!! she's such a slut
 


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Default 03-09-2008, 05:04 PM

Just because everything looks nice and rosy on the outside is not to say its so behind closed doors. And who said a good career = happy r/ship
 
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Default 03-09-2008, 05:06 PM

I Dont understand my pal too! its not like the second guys is cute or hot as such he is just a kawaida kenyan guy nothing much attractive about him tha boyfie is cool looks nice and the niceist man she would ever have !and btw i did not say the guy haz a chick also of his own ! it just beats me why she goes for diz S.O.B!

Dunno Maybe itz the attention !
 
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Default 03-09-2008, 05:44 PM

Mi conclusion, the dude is a nice guy (weakness) next S.P.(Sex Partner) just treat her the next door girl. So the second guy is the price, your friend treat him good as he doesnt give a toss.
 
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Default 03-09-2008, 07:23 PM

people cheat for so many different reasons.,to u the guy kud seem really nice but to her..,he kud be smthin else...,however..,cheating aint cool..,ur either in or out!!! y dont u try talkin to her and then fill us in on the scoop!!!
 


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Default 03-09-2008, 08:33 PM

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I Dont understand my pal too! its not like the second guys is cute or hot as such he is just a kawaida kenyan guy nothing much attractive about him tha boyfie is cool looks nice and the niceist man she would ever have !and btw i did not say the guy haz a chick also of his own ! it just beats me why she goes for diz S.O.B!

Dunno Maybe itz the attention !
Did you mean to say that the other guy has a chick?
I'll ask you again what do good looks and money and him being nice have to do with anything?

I'll break it down you. He could be all of the above and then some, but if you don't love someone or for some reason you're not happy then it's not gonna work. End of.

Otherwise all those beautiful celebrities we see would be happily married.
Instead of coming here to mashada why don't you talk to your pal, then you'll know what's going on; cos we sure aren't her.

As a by the way you sound like your kidogo in love with her main guy. No beef. Just wondering.
 
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Default Nice guy syndrome. - 03-09-2008, 11:47 PM

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i dont understand my pal too! its not like the second guys is cute or hot as such he is just a kawaida kenyan guy nothing much attractive about him tha boyfie is cool looks nice and the niceist man she would ever have !and btw i did not say the guy haz a chick also of his own ! it just beats me why she goes for diz s.o.b!:d dunno maybe itz the attention !
i have a feeling you have feelings for your buddy's mano, y care wat ur buddy is doing to her mano???????
 
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