[Chul]

I need help, I have been in a relationship for 4 years with a woman which was definitely not destined for marriage because she is married but the husband is away. And am also married. We have had times we both think we enjoyed ourselves, we really got as close as you can imagine, there isn’t anything we have never done gain and again. we both confess that we went too far than we have ever been with our spouses. But we also have had really band times, as bad as almost killing each other. At the moment we are like enemies, each one of us claims to have been hurt by the other. I have been hurt and am very bitter, causing me to even be bitter with every other human being, including any closest person who can imagine- at least it should not have been this lady who should have done me this damage. She recons that am justified to be offended by her behavior and says she has changed, something I do not trust. My behavior that offended her was meant to punish her a little and cause her to change but it never worked well. However we still meet, spend so much time arguing and accusing each other of endlessly and occasionally making love. Its not easy to keep off from her ,she lives near my apartment, I can not change apartments and can not leave the city as yet because of work. This situation is wearing me down so fast and badly I hate it, I need help if you can. I WHAT SHOULD I DO

[nyira]

What kind of help do u need? To continue with the woman or to terminate the affair? I think its high time u realise what u r doing is not fair to ur wife,and also take note that the woman is married.its better u cal it quits,go bak 2 ur family n be sorry.u shud take ur stand like a man and say no more.if u have never prayed,pliz go down 2 ua knees n tel God what u need and confess ua sins.the proces of change should start 4rm u otherwise what we write here wont help.achana na bibi wa wenyewe arobaini zikifika utachomwa!

[supermann]

you think you have problems now?wait till ur caught or she falls pregnant or she starts having an affair with another dude whose a widower of an AIDS victim while ur still f8cking each other.


ive done some sh1t in my time but damn,even i draw the lines.you have wife for f8cks sakes,end ur affair or get rid of her(wife).ur both involved in some selfish,inconsiderate tryst.u deserve what u get and i hope karma comes and properly gets you.im not judging you but you probably knew all this sh1t b4 u started ur wyld nites.seriously,how do u visualize this to end?"happily ever after"?

[KEMINOKANA]

Let me analyze this kidogo.

It seems to me that this is the woman who has your makendes. Why? Because, even though you are still married, you get offended by your concubine's behavior that you do things to change her. Change for the better, right? Which means, u want to be with this woman for a long time. Otherwise why else would ucare if she's bad mannered or whatever. She gives u pucci and thats all that normally matters but in this case, it's not. This woman has ur heart and from the look of things, u have hers...or maybe not. Perhaps she comes back to u after all that quarelling bcoz she needs you to work her up. This is why I say men should never leave their wives behind.

Anyway, what u need to do is this. Ask ur concubine to divorce her man. Once she does that, u should also divorce ur wife so that she can move on. Now if you live in africa, u can also try poligamy if the two women are up for it. But as i said, u dont need this coz clearly u love ur concubine more for one reason or another. It could b the mdinyo or it could be ur wife isnt meeting ur needs or it could actually be that u both married the wrong people.

Once u've married ur concubine, know one thing: she did it to her husband, she'll do it to u with the guy next door.

[kushungpeng]

tell us what happend mayb we will have sum sensible advice assumin we've shared the xpirience

[Chul]

By the way, the woman has been pregnat twice for me.

[charuakl]

Originally Posted by kushungpeng

tell us what happend mayb we will have sum sensible advice assumin we've shared the xpirience

stop reading to us the cover story give us the introduction then body then conclusion of the nitty gritty thus for us to solicite your help in the most polite manner

[Black pearl]

Originally Posted by Chul

I need help, I have been in a relationship for 4 years with a woman which was definitely not destined for marriage because she is married but the husband is away. And am also married. We have had times we both think we enjoyed ourselves, we really got as close as you can imagine, there isn’t anything we have never done gain and again. we both confess that we went too far than we have ever been with our spouses. But we also have had really band times, as bad as almost killing each other. At the moment we are like enemies, each one of us claims to have been hurt by the other. I have been hurt and am very bitter, causing me to even be bitter with every other human being, including any closest person who can imagine- at least it should not have been this lady who should have done me this damage. She recons that am justified to be offended by her behavior and says she has changed, something I do not trust. My behavior that offended her was meant to punish her a little and cause her to change but it never worked well. However we still meet, spend so much time arguing and accusing each other of endlessly and occasionally making love. Its not easy to keep off from her ,she lives near my apartment, I can not change apartments and can not leave the city as yet because of work. This situation is wearing me down so fast and badly I hate it, I need help if you can. I WHAT SHOULD I DO

Go get CASTRATED. Serious. Just get your whole d8ck chopped off coz it seems its getting in the way of your reasoning. This is someone’s wife. You are married. You fight. Make up. Play stupid games with each other. Then you are asking us for help? And you show no consideration for any of your spouses. Instead of looking at how green the grass on neighbours side of the fence is, water your own grass! Shindwe!