[Kenyan Jamaa]

I have been a member on mashada for a while now, actually this is a second generation name, i have been here for years and i changed my name after a few years at it.

A few months ago after serious observation of one of my "friends" on this site, i thought she was attractive enough intellectually and i started reaching out to her with the intention of getting to know her better.. The person i got to know surpassed all my expectations and it was love at first sight.. This woman made me feel things i have never felt before and i can say i saw marriage a few weeks after all this..

This woman is so special to me and she has made me love her like no woman has ever made me love.. My thing to you all out here, love is possible here and i found it and am so happy..

How many of you think i am doing the right thing?

[cee_w]

have you met her, or is this based on cyber communication?..........................if you think its love and she feels the same way, why not.. just ensure that you get to know each other well enough outside the confines of mashada and good luck to you.

[Kenyan Jamaa]

Thanks Cee w and from the lack of responses here, i can tell a lot of members here are in the same shoes.


I have met her but once, but what really bothers me is that there are a lot of men here who are flirting with her ovyo ovyo. Should i ask her to stop them or should i sit on the sidelines and watch.. And i have a feeling she dumped someone to be with me.. She keeps refering to this ..."ex"

[BBB]

That love won't last trust me....

[cee_w]

@kenyan jamaa

just like in any relationship; pple will flirt around with your girl, and its how she reacts to it that matters.
since youve met her once only, maybe it would be a good idea to build a face to face relationship before setting a wedding date.

[Shyloxx26]

Originally Posted by cee_w

@kenyan jamaa

just like in any relationship; pple will flirt around with your girl, and its how she reacts to it that matters.
since youve met her once only, maybe it would be a good idea to build a face to face relationship before setting a wedding date.

I agree, with Cee_W and what another mashadite mentioned hapo juu. If you've met only once, you need to build a relationship outside Mashada. You both have to let the defenses down and be yourselves. Hakuna cha ku-pretend. All the best to you and the new love of your life.

[Wantai]

Originally Posted by BBB

That love won't last trust me....

wacha uwongo! How do you know? those who been here a 'while' can attest to the fact that kuna a few mashadites and mashadarettes who have actually married and even started families...I have personally attended a 'mashada' real wedding. You then wonder where some members disappeared to? I know exactly where some of them are.

[Bridgette]

Originally Posted by Kenyan Jamaa

I have been a member on mashada for a while now, actually this is a second generation name, i have been here for years and i changed my name after a few years at it.

A few months ago after serious observation of one of my "friends" on this site, i thought she was attractive enough intellectually and i started reaching out to her with the intention of getting to know her better.. The person i got to know surpassed all my expectations and it was love at first sight.. This woman made me feel things i have never felt before and i can say i saw marriage a few weeks after all this..

This woman is so special to me and she has made me love her like no woman has ever made me love.. My thing to you all out here, love is possible here and i found it and am so happy..

How many of you think i am doing the right thing?

Wow am happy for you.
Dont be jealous when other guys flirt with her they dont know she is your love plus you found her here so you cant stop her from visiting mashada every now and then.
am sure girls flirt with you too without knowing she doesnt complain does she?so take it easy and enjoy what you have.also build a relationship outside mashada.all the best.

[MURMAID]

If i met a jamaa here i would never reveal it to anyone.... as in where we met

[MURMAID]

Originally Posted by Bridgette

Wow am happy for you.
Dont be jealous when other guys flirt with her they dont know she is your love plus you found her here so you cant stop her from visiting mashada every now and then.
am sure girls flirt with you too without knowing she doesnt complain does she?so take it easy and enjoy what you have.also build a relationship outside mashada.all the best.

Good Advice