Are you willing to try it Again After Cheating in a Serious relationship

Quencher · (#1 (**permalink**))

How do you handle this after all is said and done?Apologies,hurt and etc

dijah · (#2 (**permalink**))

Honestly we cant advice u to end your relationship coz no one knows why someone cheats in the 1st place....

BUT if someone cheats be assured they have been doing it and this time they were "foolish" enough to be caught. Anyways, personally unless we are married and its for better or worse......its better to call its quits and just move on with my life........AIDS is real........

pole sana.

Bridgette · (#3 (**permalink**))

It all depends on individual circumstances.Personally I would give it another go.There is alot at stake for me and am not willing to start all over again.Note that we are talking about a serious relationship with many years invested.Lots of time,money and energy.
However if its just a casual relationship we shall just exchange our apologies and nurse our hurt huko mbele as we move on our seperate ways.
@Poster I would advice you to weigh your circumstances and options carefully before you make that final decision.

aluochnora · (#4 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by Quencher

How do you handle this after all is said and done?Apologies,hurt and etc

what is your sex??? if u r a gal...don't go back. if u r a man.....the gal loves u for real, go back

shemeji · (#5 (**permalink**))

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what is your sex??? if u r a gal...don't go back. if u r a man.....the gal loves u for real, go back

There's no doubt about it,i cheat so is my gal i like going out alone each & every weekend just to get an xperience with a new chick, she's always neva at home on sundays and i know who she has been playing me with,i take it normal coz we are still in love.every man has two women ,so dudes when she cheats on u just make up coz u too cheat on her.the best thing in a relationship is understanding and having a fling with some guy doesnt mean she loves him. she still loves u but pls ladies dont cheat on us with our bros or close buddies,aids is real too.

Bridgette · (#6 (**permalink**))

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Originally Posted by aluochnora

what is your sex??? if u r a gal...don't go back. if u r a man.....the gal loves u for real, go back

Whats with the double standards?

aluochnora · (#7 (**permalink**))

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Whats with the double standards?

take for example shemeji's post...he cheats on his gf but only suspects that his gf is cheating on him coz apparently she is not home on sundays. he does not consider that he is hurting his gf or that his gf may be out with some other gals or relaz...for christ's sake it is a sunday!!! who the heck cheats on a sunday???

Quencher · (#8 (**permalink**))

Am a guy but i did not specify who cheated on whom.Its just a general thang if that does happen to a couple in a serious relationship..

Quencher · (#9 (**permalink**))

U kinda have the idea of the situation considering whats at stake,lost or could be achieved..