[alotny]

Hmm... When did I realise it was over?
Was it when she caused a massive scene for no reason, at a party, in front of all of my friends, for the tenth time? Nope.

When she caused a massive scene for no reason at my friend's wedding? Erm, nope.

When she had a huge row with my mother, for absolutely no reason at all, and then refused to see or speak to any member of my family again, because they were all "against her"? Umm, nope.

When I was chatting to some friends, one of whom happened to be female, and she accused me of having an affair? ...Nope.

When she got really upset because she found out that some of my colleagues were actually female, and insisted that I "don't work with them"? Erm, no, still nope.

When she accused me of spending hours on my computer having a long-distance affair, even though she knew full well I DIDN'T HAVE AN INTERNET CONNECTION....Well, for some time but i am always in Mashada when i am connected? Umm, err.... Nope.

When she spent an entire journey across Nairobi screaming at the top of her lungs that I was gay (I'm not, just in case you were wondering) then continued in the same vein back at our house, then accused me of hitting her, called the police, put the phone down and when they rang back told them she'd "dialled a wrong number" - all in front of my best friend? Yes? You would think so... but still nope.

When I realised I was spending every evening sitting in the local woods with a sharp knife rather than going home to her? Nope, just going through a bad patch

It was only when my friends told me categorically they didn't want to ever be in the same room as her that I finally decided to pull the plug. What can I say, I'm stubborn.

Dumb biach got engaged three months after I finally ditched her. I pity the poor guy.

[Tew Anigav]

Originally Posted by KEMINOKANA

Here I use what that representative from Penn called Murtha calls a "SLOW-BLEED" strategy. You start by reducing communication.....like a curve, not a corner. Increase disagreements in your lessening communications. After a while come up with new future plans that make it harder for the relationship to carry out. Then you can easily come to a mutual agreement to call it off. Calling it off when the other party thinks everything is going great is harder to pull off.

But then, not even all that works perfectly....I've never had a peaceful, respectful breakup. So I'm accustomed to receiving all sorts of cries which turn into tantrums then harsh insults. LOL.

This guy has a point but the plan will only work if your partner is smart enough.Kuna wengine hawatajua nini inaendelea.


Your method works almost perfectly.I tried it once with a bright chick.-Perfect

[poko-hunter]

emotional pain is inevitable. there is no simple way of breaking up bila consequences. you can try lessen communication as someone stated earlier but when your experiencing those dry spells of getting aid, who is the first person you call?? Your EX!!!!!!!

anyway..the best breakup i'v had is when i lied to a mama that i'd turned gay. got i kick out of too! the mama got furious! LMAO

[Msesh]

Originally Posted by alotny

Hmm... When did I realise it was over?
Was it when she caused a massive scene for no reason, at a party, in front of all of my friends, for the tenth time? Nope.

When she caused a massive scene for no reason at my friend's wedding? Erm, nope.

When she had a huge row with my mother, for absolutely no reason at all, and then refused to see or speak to any member of my family again, because they were all "against her"? Umm, nope.

When I was chatting to some friends, one of whom happened to be female, and she accused me of having an affair? ...Nope.

When she got really upset because she found out that some of my colleagues were actually female, and insisted that I "don't work with them"? Erm, no, still nope.

When she accused me of spending hours on my computer having a long-distance affair, even though she knew full well I DIDN'T HAVE AN INTERNET CONNECTION....Well, for some time but i am always in Mashada when i am connected? Umm, err.... Nope.

When she spent an entire journey across Nairobi screaming at the top of her lungs that I was gay (I'm not, just in case you were wondering) then continued in the same vein back at our house, then accused me of hitting her, called the police, put the phone down and when they rang back told them she'd "dialled a wrong number" - all in front of my best friend? Yes? You would think so... but still nope.

When I realised I was spending every evening sitting in the local woods with a sharp knife rather than going home to her? Nope, just going through a bad patch

It was only when my friends told me categorically they didn't want to ever be in the same room as her that I finally decided to pull the plug. What can I say, I'm stubborn.

Dumb biach got engaged three months after I finally ditched her. I pity the poor guy.

Goddawg...lol. You are a VERY patient man.

[jasakwa]

Originally Posted by alotny

Hmm... When did I realise it was over?
Was it when she caused a massive scene for no reason, at a party, in front of all of my friends, for the tenth time? Nope.

When she caused a massive scene for no reason at my friend's wedding? Erm, nope.

When she had a huge row with my mother, for absolutely no reason at all, and then refused to see or speak to any member of my family again, because they were all "against her"? Umm, nope.

When I was chatting to some friends, one of whom happened to be female, and she accused me of having an affair? ...Nope.

When she got really upset because she found out that some of my colleagues were actually female, and insisted that I "don't work with them"? Erm, no, still nope.

When she accused me of spending hours on my computer having a long-distance affair, even though she knew full well I DIDN'T HAVE AN INTERNET CONNECTION....Well, for some time but i am always in Mashada when i am connected? Umm, err.... Nope.

When she spent an entire journey across Nairobi screaming at the top of her lungs that I was gay (I'm not, just in case you were wondering) then continued in the same vein back at our house, then accused me of hitting her, called the police, put the phone down and when they rang back told them she'd "dialled a wrong number" - all in front of my best friend? Yes? You would think so... but still nope.

When I realised I was spending every evening sitting in the local woods with a sharp knife rather than going home to her? Nope, just going through a bad patch

It was only when my friends told me categorically they didn't want to ever be in the same room as her that I finally decided to pull the plug. What can I say, I'm stubborn.

Dumb biach got engaged three months after I finally ditched her. I pity the poor guy.

That was a psychiatric case,good ridance.