Most of you made some logically sound reasonings toward's Pippy's dillema. But here are a few I thought I'd respond to.
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Originally Posted by jaykam
Then again we hav parents who try and pimp their son to you by saying things like ........you guys look really good together...... or Eric go show Jaykam your room (yaani they want their son to hav som ass)...... mpaka u start feeling weird around ur friend.
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Jaykam... you cracked me up in your comment. By the way, all this time I didn't know you are a chile. My bad, mammi- still got mad luv fo ya regardless.
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Originally Posted by fiery_preacher
As a man,a master of my mind,i would humbly convince my mum that am a christian and my view is supported by the bible.It is writen that a man shall leave his mother and father and be joined with a woman.It doesn't say that a mother will chose for her son a wife.The mere fact that the bible mentions the man shall leave his parents,symbolises an aspect of freedom.
That is my opinion.
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I like your approach best, Fiery-preacher. I'd make the same approach with my paroz. Naturally, paros often want the best for the kids, and as someone once said, sometimes they see things our young, inexperienced eyes overlook cuz we are head over heels "in love" with the chile over there. I had a first hand experience on this one, y'all- lemme tell y'all. So one day I went to church, and this Caribbean mammi was checking me out guess cuz I was looking tidy, and I sang that day in church, too. That day, when her aunt who's also a good friend of mine, introduced me to her, my mom saw right through me that something was up. On our way home, she was like "That gurl is pretty and all, but I'm not feeling her like that- she'll burn you up, son, so don't even think about it." (needles to say, mammi was fine as hell.) After a short arguement, I dismissed her advise and pursued the mammi anyway. Long story short, we "dated" for some months and everything looked alright. Well, there some ways she'd act that made me not to totally commit cuz I kept thinking like "What if this heffer is up to no good? Hebu acha ni tizame kwanza." Then she had to go visit her mother land, Antigua, for the summer. Suddenly, the phone calls became less and less, till one day, I am directed to her profile on hi5 by one of her friends, and there's a pic of her in bed with some other chali. Kume mammi had been cheating the entire time, y'all! Anyway, this is why I'd say don't overthrow your mother's/parents advise entirely out the window, give it some though before you dismiss it cuz they might have a point, Pippy.
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Originally Posted by pritijo
ok guys, just hold up one minute.
Imagine you have a kid and your kid has come of age, ready to marry/ get married (I didn't say just met or just dating)...and you know your kid's partner's character very well without a shadow of doubt. And that character is... well, let's say that you know your baby is going to land in trouble sooner or later. What would you do???
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Point noted, pretty Joe.
07-20-2007, 12:14 AM
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