[Volina]

To the men in the room and ladies may comment, but mostly the guys in the room:

What is your perception on promiscuous women?

Would you marry a woman from the club, you know promiscuous?

I am saying this because we have both men and women who have been promiscuous, more so men than women, but I am just talking about the women:

Tell me; how you do you tell if a woman is promiscuous?

How do you prevent your feelings from getting attached to the girl, though, I think most women are the one who act like walled hearts and men just have a good time and delete the number the next day, but what if the girl likes you, do you date her or be friends with her?

Do you ever talk to these promiscuous women, Poko, please tell me, I am sure you are an expert in one-night- stand?


I know most of you men like these women because they are confident, than just taking a virgin in bed and she will probably cry all nite and sleep without doing it.....so you might find comfort, but anyhow, just wondering what really matters, is it the confidence and having great sex with a slut....whore...promiscous for just one nite worth it?

Ps: I saw the episode in Tyra show today and just wondered what mashadites think about these things.

[Vicki]

>Would you marry a woman from the club, you know promiscuous?

Is a woman in a club synonymous with promiscuous character?

> I think most women are the one who act like
>walled hearts

What do you mean 'walled hearts'??


>do you
>date her or be friends with her?

If the guy had a good time then lost her number that kinda tells it all

>I know most of you men like these women because they are
>confident, than just taking a virgin in bed and she will
>probably cry all nite and sleep without doing it.....so you
>might find comfort, but anyhow, just wondering what really
>matters, is it the confidence and having great sex with a
>slut....whore...promiscous for just one nite worth it?

I'm trying to understand that one....

[msema ukweli Kabisa]

Volina, I would rather date a "promiscous" mark you I have put that into quotes coz I think thats is a very ignorant and myopic way to look at it,

back to what I was saying I would rather date that promiscous lady than someone like you, who comes of as judgemental and puts themselves in a pedestal.

I think sex is a good gift to mankind but we really think marriage is gonna be all about it, but from what I hear date someone who can be a good friend and companion irrespective of the sex.

and finally I would rather date a girl who will suck my d.ick and lick my balls (famous chris rock words) than one with a "unused ******" and is a total prude, coz guess what thats how cheaters are created

[Volina]

msema, Thanks for your response.

I believe that I have the choice of not being promiscous and doing what I wanna do irrespective of what my friends, peers or u might think.

However, most of these " promiscous" women have no choice. They are out to hurt men. They were either raped or abused in some way sexually and now wanna take control.

What I mean by the walled hearts, is the way these women inhibit the feelings taking control. They wanna be like men or something, no emotions. Most are just sick and they need help.


However, I am surprised that promiscous men, who get one night stands, drunk in a club, dont really even speak to these women. The women need to be loved, they want to get a man who will respect them, they are aching inside, but selling their bodies in the physical for sex irrespective of the feeling they might feel.


all I am asking is how do you men who get these one night stands treat these women, it is indeed a concern of my own.

[Mzungu-Mweusi]

>Would you marry a woman from the club, you know promiscuous?

//Promiscuous girl wherever you are ....I’m all alone and it's you that I want//

Someone youtube me tafazali :)

[Volina]

too bad Mzungu, coz most of these women dont wanna be housewives, remember they wanna hurt you. They wanna take control of the men. They have 40 men in a month....

They are lost upstairs. They are hurt and all they have to do is have more and more sex....I mean what kind of person can have sex 30 times a day or more with men all different?

anyhow, they dont want to be married. I guess they are just young...they think life just stays the same, but when they mature out of their pain, they will choose who they wanna be. I am just shocked that women who have children do these things.

I get the point that the men in here dont mind introducing these promiscous women to their family and dating or even marrying them when they wanna stop being promiscous and monogamous and raising ur children....

Can I please get some honest male answers in here ?

Another thing I get is that u dont really mind that these women have been promiscous and they will do it again.

What message do you get in ur head when a gal sleeps with u on the first date?

[Mzungu-Mweusi]

>too bad Mzungu, coz most of these women dont wanna be housewives, remember they wanna hurt you. They wanna take control of the men. They have 40 men in a month


LMFAO!!!!

I hear you Violina LOL~. Now can you please youtube some promiscous hit? :D

[crazy boo]

>>too bad Mzungu, coz most of these women dont wanna be
>housewives, remember they wanna hurt you. They wanna take
>control of the men. They have 40 men in a month
>
>
>LMFAO!!!!
>
>I hear you Violina LOL~. Now can you please youtube some
>promiscous hit? :D

:D:D:D:D:D

[milanya]

>To the men in the room and ladies may comment, but mostly the
>guys in the room:
>
>What is your perception on promiscuous women?
Depends on your definition of "promiscuous" and everyone has one, even though there is a dictionary one. Some people think any unmarried woman who isn't cellibate is, others think that a woman is depending on how many partners she has had, others if she does more than one guy at a time etc

Anyway, I try not to think on their behalf, it is not a lifestyle I'd chose for myself, but everyone is entitled to whatever they are comfortable with. I only feel bad for those promiscuous women who are do it because it stems from previous sexual abuse, those who are searching for closeness but going about it the wrong way, those who are naive and end up getting used. I had a friend once tell me she used to be promiscuous because she is a very loving person and that's the way she expressed her love. That's her thing...

>Would you marry a woman from the club, you know promiscuous?
>
>I am saying this because we have both men and women who have
>been promiscuous, more so men than women, but I am just
>talking about the women:

My impression from the guys I've met is this "Everyone wants to drive a jetta, but not necessarilly buy one." A lot of men want to screw around but a marry a chic who doesn't.

>Tell me; how you do you tell if a woman is promiscuous?
That's a weird swali.

>How do you prevent your feelings from getting attached to the
>girl, though, I think most women are the one who act like
>walled hearts and men just have a good time and delete the
>number the next day, but what if the girl likes you, do you
>date her or be friends with her?

Asking a question like this about gender differences to me seems redundant. It's like a man, asking you how you can't separate sex and emotion. It's just the way some people are built, or have learned to numb themselves. A piece of tape is real sticky the first time you use it, but if you pull it off and keep re-pasting it eventually it just can't sitck to anything. Same thing with sex and emotion, at least I think on the side of a woman. For men i thinkk sex is like any other basic instinct, you're hungry - you eat, you're sleepy, you sleep, no ifs buts maybes or how I feel...

Men tend to be able to separate sex and emotion, but every so often I have seen a man who went into something with the intent of no strings attached, and then found himself stuck.

>Do you ever talk to these promiscuous women, Poko, please tell
>me, I am sure you are an expert in one-night- stand?

of course you have to say at least one thing, how do you get to bed?
ama just give "the eye"


>I know most of you men like these women because they are
>confident, than just taking a virgin in bed and she will
>probably cry all nite and sleep without doing it.....so you
>might find comfort, but anyhow, just wondering what really
>matters, is it the confidence and having great sex with a
>slut....whore...promiscous for just one nite worth it?

i think it is a misconception that ALL virgins are frigid people. The problem is a number of virgins are so uptight about sex thatt they don't read or talk or learn about the actual act, and good sex isn't something you are born with. I know this virgin couple getting married in Dec, and I wonder how they'll fare on, because neither one of them can even bring themselves to utter the word "sex." Whether you choose to be a virgin or not I think it is important for a couple to discuss sex and sexual expectations before marriage. How can this happen when you can't even say 'sex'?

A man likes a woman that knows how to please him, but some guys have told me they enjoy the pleasure of "teaching" one.

Life's not a garden so don't be a hoe

[Volina]

Hi Milanya and thanks for ur enlightening contribution.


I do tend to think that the virgin stereotype is just that.

Say, I am a biologist, and everything and I love to talk about sex, coz that is how animals reproduce, without it Biology wouldnt be as exciting . Yes, I am also aware of other means of reproduction, but Biologists, more so, Zoologists are just so obsessed with sex. I had to read a whole six books about sex in the animal kingdom.

However, now that I am exposed to the talk about sex in the Biology area and of course, there are so many sources. I believe that anyone can have sex and yes, great sex. I mean, why not. If you love sex u will unleash ur wild side and if u are comfortable with having sex with that person when the time is right.

I am sure that having sex with a man at the first date, would click a thought in the mind, if she did with me, then who else is she doing it with or would she do it with?