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07-12-2008, 06:32 PM
Senorita,
I must confess, I didn't read all the responses you got. A few of them and I see that Mashada is basket with both rotten and good fruits. You'll have to have heart to wade through all manner of things to pick some good advice.
About a man cheating? It is gold to find one who doesn't. The only issue is that it is either a question of time or the skill at which a man carries out his cheatings. For a man to cheat is almost natural. This is what I mean: If what Christ said about men following women with their eyes and taken them to bed in their hearts is true (and it is), it takes a miracle to find a man who doesn't get hypnotised by the beauty of women that crisscross his path.
A man cheating may not necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It means that he is giving in to the impulses of sensuality and adventure. If all men see what I see in women, then there is extremely little cahnce of getting a faithful boyfriend. But here is a question for you: If husbands cheat, what about boyfriend?
Different women offer different "stuff", ranging from "the sitting allowance", lips, legs, hair, smile to figure, etc. You may not have everything but even if you do, other ladies are unique in some way that will still steal your man.
Too much literature, but to cut the long story short--talking as a typical man--howver much I loved a woman, I would still have awy matches. It is only after meeting the Son of God that He put sense in my heart and tamed the sexual mania in my manhood that you can count that I wouldn't have away much at a gunpoint.
Senorita, if you want a man that doesn't cheat that I may guarantee, it is a man who has truly been tamed as I was. But for you to get such a man, you have also to identify with the One who helps us become sober in our maniac behaviours.
I didn't preach--did I? Whatever the case, this is better than those who are telling you dirty things and beahaving as if it is criminal to seek advice from this forum.
Did that help?
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