[milanya]

Lol @ Mkenya, I guess it's either Long Distance Love or I shrubbed LDR
Life's not a garden so don't be a hoe

[kanyabu]

you guys at mashada are the awesomest to say the least. P.s this is not my first relationship but the only one that I've cared for long enough to think twice about. I've taken all of your advice into consideration and I think I'm gonna stick to it and grow up a little. I guess i was afraid of being played coz I'm a reformed player and commitmentphobic. Y'all rock. P.s Bama is birmingham.

[Wantai]

Is it just me or you have a funny way with words?

>scarce and scarcer

>awesomest

>bama = Birmingham?

Is this post helpful to threadstarter? mhhh...no, so back to those in the right gear. Drive safely.

[shayvonne]

BAMA= ALABAMA .....birhmingam is Alabama's capital..redneck city

[kanyabu]

@ Wantai did you have some sort of learning disability in Buru
Mambao or what? at the beginning of my post I wrote and asked people not to feel obligated to answer my question if they have nothing useful to say.haujawai acha utoto wa high school where you thought the sun rose out of your fat ass with your big boobed buddy. people like you grate on my nerves aaaaarrrrggggghhhhh!!!!!

[shayvonne]

whoa!..with that kinda attitude maybe the guy wanna keep his ass safe in Bama..lol

[key-pusa]

@Milanya...good advice.

@Poster...you gotta first of all figure out WHY you're in this relationship and what the future holds. If he's not hubby material and you already know this, why hold on and then end it in another few months when you could end it now? Most people stick around for the sex, but you ain't getting any when he's in another state, so why hold on? If, on the other hand, you guys are banking on making this relationship really long-term and perhaps even thinking about marriage, then it's worth keeping the flame alive. Just know that it takes twice as much effort to make a long distance relationship work and the effort is not worth it if you don't see a future with this guy...at least for me it's not.

[Wantai]

FWD: Irony of life

MEN

1. All men are extremely busy.

2. Although they are very busy, they still have time for women.

3. Although they have time for women, they don't really
care for them.

4. Although they don't really care for them, they

always have one around.

5. Although they always have one around them, they

always try their luck with others.

6. Although they try their luck with others, they get really pissed off if the woman leaves them.

7. Although the woman leaves them they still don't

learn from their mistakes and still try their luck with others.



WOMEN:



1. The most important thing for a woman is

financial security.

2. Although this is so important, they still go

out and buy expensive clothes and stuff.

3. Although they always buy expensive clothes,

they never have something to wear.

4. Although they never have something to wear,

they always dress beautifully.

5. Although they always dress beautifully, their

clothes are always just "Old Rags".

6. Although their clothes are always, just an old

rag, they still expect you to compliment them.

7. Although they expect you to compliment them,

when you do, they don't believe you

[new-edition]

the bigger question is how does one life in oklahoma .?

[Mzungu-Mweusi]

>the bigger question is how does one life in oklahoma .?

Thats simple,Because Oklahoma is OK :)