[nyar raila]

i penda him but i don´t know how to tell him"i love you"without intimidation or fear.if he´s feeling the same way should i wait for him to make the first step?

[patt]

never ever tell a man you love him before he tells you.If he hasn't told you he loves you,he probably doesn't.why would you want to tell someone who doesn't love you that you do love him.He likes you, that is why he's with you,but not enough to love you.He probably believes in "love grows over time," so just hold on to your three words until he says them himself.

[crazy boo]

>never ever tell a man you love him before he tells you.If he
>hasn't told you he loves you,he probably doesn't.why would you
>want to tell someone who doesn't love you that you do love
>him.He likes you, that is why he's with you,but not enough to
>love you.He probably believes in "love grows over time," so
>just hold on to your three words until he says them himself.


very very true!

[Delyteful]

i agree.. just wait.. u dont wanna freak the guy out..

[jmburus]

>i penda him but i don´t know how to tell him"i love
>you"without intimidation or fear.if he´s feeling the same way
>should i wait for him to make the first step?



my sympathies go to the poor bloke

[Sanaa-]

Start by opening your mouth, it works 99% of the time.

The 1% is if you prolly have bad breath, he will say he doesn't feel the same.

[Beenie_gal]

Saying I Love You (even when you're not sure he'll say it back)
Well, duh. No girl wants to declare her love to a stony silence. But equally most boys would rather get down n dirty with Wellard than discuss their feelings. So there comes a time for every girl when we've just got to go for it.

The groundwork;
No need to get deep. Just chat casually about your relationship: "I'm having such a good time with you." "I never thought I'd find someone with as sick a sense of humour as me." That kind of thing. You'll know from his reaction if he's ready for the "Love" word.

The first time you say, "I love you" you'll probably feel like a bit of an idiot. Don't worry - if it's right, it soon feels right.
But if you just can’t bring yourself to say it, buy a card containing the essential words (obviously avoid anything cute or involving kittens - you don't want his reaction to involve vomit). Make sure you're together when he opens it.

Pick the right time and place to tell him. around ur' friendz= bad idea. Choose somewhere private where you’ll get his undivided attention. When it comes to choosing your moment, go with your instincts.

If he doesn't say it back, don’t assume he doesn’t love you back.
If he actually tells you he doesn’t love you, then at least you know where you stand. Yes, you'll feel like sh1t, but it needn't be an automatic dumping offence and he might change his mind. Some boys fear love and commitment like they fear a freak D1ck-severing incident. Only you can decide whether to stick around.



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[miss phat]

>never ever tell a man you love him before he tells you.If he
>hasn't told you he loves you,he probably doesn't.why would you
>want to tell someone who doesn't love you that you do love
>him.He likes you, that is why he's with you,but not enough to
>love you.He probably believes in "love grows over time," so
>just hold on to your three words until he says them himself

This is true, u have to be absolute sure when ur saying those words becoz thats the most misused word.

You have ONE advantage over me.....you can kiss my ass and I can't!!

[buzi]

@my sympathies go to the poor bloke lol y?
nways gal i dont think u should sema anything most probably he will feel u are suffocating him as most men do or something and well if he feels the same way he should have said already.this is a point of view from someone who does not belive in all that love crap seeing as most relationships always start to deteroriate from the tyme u utter those words 'i love u'...but ukipenda umependa!!!!

[sosodef]

Now whats all this BS??????
Love is a two way affair,it dosent matter what who says first!
So do you actually believe a man if he were to tell u he loves u first?
Would it make a difference?

Ladies, your game plan has been busted,try something else.
For one i never tell a chic i,m in love with her,thats a strong word! I encourage everyone to just go out there and have a good time dating and love comes naturally.Story mingi achana nayo!