how do say "i love you" - Page 2

dj kevo · (#11 (**permalink**))

It's so interesting to see ladies giving all these responses about what they think men are like. Like all you ladies in here, not all men think, feel, act the same, therefore you can't just generalize. To the poster, only you know your man and you should go with your instinct. By hanging out with him, you'll have an idea of whether he feels the same way too or if he's just in it for the rubs. Good luck to you.

Kevo

Sleek Rick · (#12 (**permalink**))

LOL...you should write a book! And now which mamas are these trying to psychoanalyze jamaas like they've got experience being jamaas...or maybe they do...who knows

patt · (#13 (**permalink**))

the guys responding to the thread are not even offering a solution.why don't you make yourself useful and tell this chic how guys will normally respond to a chic who decides to declare her love for a man who probably is having a prolonged one night stand?

Me thinks if this guy approached you first and told you he would like you to be his galfriend,i don't see why it is hard for him to say he loves you.You probably not the type of person he would like to be serious with, or the time isn't right.

Chics are equally qualified to comment on this subject because they have dated the man species or atleast been friends with a man at some point and have an idea on how to deal with the issue at hand.

My advice is if you are the one who hit on the man and he was okey with it, he will be okey with when you utter those words you very much wish to.

nyar raila · (#14 (**permalink**))

>the guys responding to the thread are not even offering a
>solution.why don't you make yourself useful and tell this chic
>how guys will normally respond to a chic who decides to
>declare her love for a man who probably is having a prolonged
>one night stand?
>
>Me thinks if this guy approached you first and told you he
>would like you to be his galfriend,i don't see why it is hard
>for him to say he loves you.You probably not the type of
>person he would like to be serious with, or the time isn't
>right.
>
>Chics are equally qualified to comment on this subject because
>they have dated the man species or atleast been friends with a
>man at some point and have an idea on how to deal with the
>issue at hand.
>
>My advice is if you are the one who hit on the man and he was
>okey with it, he will be okey with when you utter those words
>you very much wish
thanks sweety.guys like patt said assume you the guy so what could have been your reaction?
thanks all for the replys though

FISI_1 · (#15 (**permalink**))

Since u dont want to tell him that u love him,just suck his dxck and he will definately know.Lol

patt · (#16 (**permalink**))

@fisi

you dont suck deek of man who doesnt love you unless he's p-licked you. too risky. an i love you may get the gal close to the belly button but nowhere lower than that.

if you think you've made it,think again

Wantai · (#17 (**permalink**))

juss don say it! keep it to ureself till ma idhaa.

lilfox12 · (#18 (**permalink**))

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't, or
Saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.

If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have u ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't.
You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own........when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we
don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us.

But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.

Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.

Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.

* What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?

*What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?

*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them

milanya · (#19 (**permalink**))

Some men are terrified by the L word. My bf actaully told me he loved me first. It was early in our relationship and i was a bit freaked out, but I just told him that I liked him a lot but I wasn't sure if i could call it love at that point. Our relationship contined and eventually when I felt comfortable I said the 'L' word. Give the relationship some time and if he doesn't say it, then go ahead and say it. You need to know where the relationship is going. Just don't push it and let him know there is no pressure on him to feel the same way immediately or at all. For all u know he is scared of saying it and both of you are just tiptoeing around.
If you guys have been together a considerable amount of time if he is mature and the long-term kinda of guy he hsould be able to handle it
Life's not a garden so don't be a hoe

chotadipo · (#20 (**permalink**))

Do you have to say "I love you" or does he have to? Are those the only three words that you believe will convey your feelngs for him? For all I care "I love you" in any language is the mosy beautiful phrase one would like to hear or say, but again it is not everything. My mum has loved me since the day I was conceived, I have never heard her tell me "I love you", yet I know her love for me is irreplacable.