For Men, and/ Or the Professionally Trainned Seductresses :) - Page 3

Msoto · (#21 (**permalink**))

>but yeah... enough with
>>this starring and sh*t, if anything I'll pata a good friend
>>out of the ice breakers...sindio :)
>
>
>hehehe...then he can slowly climb the ladder ama..:D

Kweli chiles make a jamaa suffer...slowly climb the ladder.
And after all that you discover hata sio cloud nine ndio iko huko juu.

KEMINOKANA · (#22 (**permalink**))

hahaha funny thread.....didnt know u people have a rage for men and even have tricks to catch our attention :D.

At times ur ice breakers may not quite break the ice....and might even backfire. Some chic came to me mid last year. I'd been seeing her on campus and being a majority white school, as blacks, we just said hi to eachother. So this day she came to me and shook my hands saying congratulations. I wasnt expecting it at all so I said thank you. I thought she'd leave after but alas, she stood still there staring at me! I was left speechless and all I'd say was "i'll see you around". My friend who was there almost killed me after.

So make sure you have a backup plan should he not catch ur icebreaker. Bring up something else that starts a conversation in case he takes ur ice breaker like that of complimenting his locks as just another of the many compliments he probably gets.

But it is time u quit sleeping around. Dont be a door mat....to me that would have me running to the mountains. But I've also realized that a majority of those women who approach men are just like you: they have done that to many other men and are over####ked! Which is why I'll never take such women seriously. No ill intended :D

Msoto · (#23 (**permalink**))

>mayyy beee.... depending on how I feel about him after a
>month of being friends..cause sometimes with jamaaz..u find
>out more sh*t about them when u don't date them than u would
>if u did....and sometimes u end up thanking your lucky stars
>that he didn't give u mono or gonorrhea!!(sp* not sure)
>*shiver!*

life is short...well take a chance and see where it leads...later on you will be reminiscing the experience and it will have taught you something.

No one is perfect...and dont expect them to be perfect...if you two can communicate then thats great and you have a friend.
However if you make that ladder too steep to climb...he may no longer want to be bedroom buddies.

crazy boo · (#24 (**permalink**))

>Kweli chiles make a jamaa suffer...slowly climb the ladder.
>And after all that you discover hata sio cloud nine ndio iko
>huko juu.
>

well Msoto...lol..its not all the time people click.You never know...sasa if he becomes a friend you cann't really ignore him left right and center...and plus...If he's a good friend he might end up being a good candidate..lol..

crazy boo · (#25 (**permalink**))

Keminokana,Hitting on s'one is not directly proportional to sleeping with them.Personally there are days I will just be in be in the mood of "uplifting" brothers' spirits.Every dude that's good looking that crosses my path hiyo siku will have a great day..lol...reminds me of this dude we "chokozad" on the highway...everybody once in a while wants to feel appreciated..I know he felt as though his car waz on 26"...lol..I think its also a chick thing to get jazzed when you make a jamaa blush...it makes my..daaaayyy!!!!!

KEMINOKANA · (#26 (**permalink**))

>Keminokana,Hitting on s'one is not directly proportional to
>sleeping with them.Personally there are days I will just be in
>be in the mood of "uplifting" brothers' spirits.Every dude
>that's good looking that crosses my path hiyo siku will have a
>great day..lol...reminds me of this dude we "chokozad" on the
>highway...everybody once in a while wants to feel
>appreciated..I know he felt as though his car waz on
>26"...lol..I think its also a chick thing to get jazzed when
>you make a jamaa blush...it makes my..daaaayyy!!!!!
>

:D :D True true....just dont let the dogs out or toks out as nxele says it. They'll end up biting u.

As for the sleeping, I was referring to those who hit on men with the intentions to. :9

Nadia · (#27 (**permalink**))

>
>But it is time u quit sleeping around. Dont be a door
>mat....to me that would have me running to the mountains. But
>I've also realized that a majority of those women who approach
>men are just like you: they have done that to many other men
>and are over####ked! Which is why I'll never take such women
>seriously. No ill intended :D

O-oo-OO! ..Am SHOCKED!!...you think I really sleep around ehh??..lol..Kemi seriously..me of all people? a "ka-langa" (*Looking at u with big innocent eyes!*)

Okay..pengine u sort of lost the point kidogo...I was asking if I should "Hit on him"...that means that I am sooo not used to doing that kinda sh*t, most guys are the ones who approach me....thats why am wondering why the bwai is "Mack-timming"... so am wondering...should I "hit on him"...and if so.."HOW"

Wooii..lol..I may talk of f*cking all the time...or "f*ck this...f*ck that"....doesn't mean that I ACTUALLY f*ck everything with a penis infront of me.. I admitt..I am a crazy flirt, I flirt with guys to get everything, I flirt with my boss, I even stooped so low once and flirted with one of my proffs, mpaka wa leo I was shocke I got a 83% in that research methods class vile I hate MEDLINE with a passion!

so me flirting with everything, yep, I do that.....not the latter thought!

Nadia · (#28 (**permalink**))

>First off Nad's...You need to hook yourself up with this
>book
>
>"Why Men Love Bchez: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide
>to Holding Her Own in a Relationship" By Sherry Argov. Handle
>your biz!
>
>Next...a dude who hasnt stepped to you in 4 months...let
>sleeping dogs lie!! aiiii...if he digs you dude will not and i
>repeat never wait 4 months..something is wrong with his
>dreadlock @zz!! hehehe...
>
>P.S..when are you coming down to E.DOT?.lol

I am fikaing E-Dot for my spring break!!!..Mwanzo I dunno how I forgot to send u an email about that... we will hit all the clubs on White Ave....your comming right???!! Holler fast!! :)

milanya · (#29 (**permalink**))

Nadia are you a med student?
Life's not a garden so don't be a hoe

tinna · (#30 (**permalink**))

MMMHHH LETS LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, SOME MEN LOVES TO HIT ON AND SOME MEN WILL GO LIKE" WHAT THE #### IS GOING ON WITH THIS LADY" AS MUCH AS TEHY EITHER LIKE YOU TEH MOST THEY CAN DO IS TO #### U AND LEAVE YOU WHILE THE OTHER SIDE OF THE MEN WILL LIKE IT BUT THEY NEVER WANT TO BE APPROACHED DIRECTLY,
HEY LADIES WE HAVE AN INDIRECT WWAY OF TELLING THEM THAT WE LOVE THEM,
A SMILE A DAY KEEPS HIM CLOSER TO YOU,
A HUG AFTER EVERY DEPARTING AND MEETING KEEPS HIM CLOSE TO YOUR HEART
CALL HIM ON THE PHONE TELL HIM YOU WANTED TO SAY GOODNITE AND SAY " GOODNIGHT LOVE YOU AND TAKE CARE,,,,,, THOSE ARE JUST BUT AFEW HINTS IF ITS NOT WORKING WELL HE IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU IF HE HAS THE HEART HE SHOULD RESPOND BUT AFTER TRYING ALL THE SMILES ITS NOT WORKING TRY TO FORGET HE IS NOT MEANT FOR YOU, DONT END UP CRYING!!!!!

THAS MAI IDEAAAAA
FROM MY DESK LOL