[Beenie_gal]

@thread starter
happy new yr' may it ave prosperity!(i luv that word 4 no reason :) )
i dont if i can understand wot u feelin' but i know something like that, summ similar but diffrent!
all u gotta do is if u like FUN, go out wiv ur' friends, look ur' best have a drink or 2, 4get the past, indulge in the present and blive in the future!!
that way, with that spirit u will get a man!:)
trust me!

@ newed'
u r not a sister, so let it be it's obviously a coincidence, really strange 1!!

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+DONT HATE THE PLAYA, HATE THE GAME+

[blkbabe]

Hi Veritas,Keminokana and Beenie_gal.
Thanx alot for your advise,your words will help me get through.
I've realised he's not even worth the pain i'm going through.
This morning was going through some issues posted a few months ago(don't know why)but then i found stupid posts he sent before i became a member.He had cheated on me and was asking people whether to tell me or not.....what a loser.
Apparently he's seeing one of the people who used to offer him advise.........on mashada.
It hurts but i know it will come to pass.

[wahenga]

mhh dat loser sounds familiar, think i recall that thread, never thot it was a mashadite....this joint is mo nuts than i anticipated!

[Beenie_gal]

yeah, i have 2 say, i think i also read a thread like that, but culdnt be bothered 2 reply!!
you bet, nuts and looserz!

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[Mzungu-Mweusi]

>Happy New year everyone.I need help.
>Can't get someone out of my mind and out of my heart too.
>Nothing is making sense in my life.I so lonely,i gave this guy
>more than two years of my life but he decided to throw all
>that away for a new girl he met in his country.Please help
>me.I'm torn.
>Sisters...any remedies?????????

Pole Siste, I hope you find true love; i think you have to understand that if it was meant to be,then it would have(it would perhaps). I think you have to look positive and confront reality face on...it is hard to mend a broken heart,but life is such.

You have two choices: Cry yourself out(it helps am told) and whine till to u cant whine no more-- or u could Be realistic and accept that life is full of sh1t and it happens to the best of people(including you).

Once again Pole,as pole is the only thing i can give you. If you gave the best and he thinks the rest are better,you are surelly better off.

Happy N/Year :)

[KEMINOKANA]

blkbabe, what is his name? i've read several posts of such kind. why cant u post that thread here ;)

But wow, ati the advisor eloped with him? I see things in here are more serious than I thought. I always think pple are fooling and flirting around but apparently it's always serious. hmmmmm....

[crazy boo]

>blkbabe, what is his name? i've read several posts of such
>kind. why cant u post that thread here ;)
>
>But wow, ati the advisor eloped with him? I see things in here
>are more serious than I thought. I always think pple are
>fooling and flirting around but apparently it's always
>serious. hmmmmm....

damn Bikbabe hata mimi I think you should toboa.Hiyo ni tabia mbovu.

[Lone ranger]

@blkbabe
Could it be that the problem was you and not him?
Just because you raised it first doesnt mean you didnt cause it.I dont mean to sound like the devils advocate here but I think sometimes we jump into conclusions too fast.I mean,the brutha was looking for luv on mashada while you were together,ama how did you know he used to and the threads he was sending or replying to?
People,dont be too quick to throw stones at the alleged sinner.What could have pushed him away to the arms of the mashadite woman?
You wanted to know how to get over him - you've been given the advice.Take it or leave it.To go into details as to why,who when - why dont you take this time to reflect and see where you could have gone wrong so that next time when that 'good fish'(as you've been told)comes along,you'll do things better and if it doesnt work out,maybe you'll learn to invest only a piece your heart.
Maybe not the advice you'ld like to hear right now but if you can get away with it,its always good to be in control.

[KEMINOKANA]

>@blkbabe
>Could it be that the problem was you and not him?
>Just because you raised it first doesnt mean you didnt cause
>it.I dont mean to sound like the devils advocate here but I
>think sometimes we jump into conclusions too fast.I mean,the
>brutha was looking for luv on mashada while you were
>together,ama how did you know he used to and the threads he
>was sending or replying to?
>People,dont be too quick to throw stones at the alleged
>sinner.What could have pushed him away to the arms of the
>mashadite woman?
>You wanted to know how to get over him - you've been given the
>advice.Take it or leave it.To go into details as to why,who
>when - why dont you take this time to reflect and see where
>you could have gone wrong so that next time when that 'good
>fish'(as you've been told)comes along,you'll do things better
>and if it doesnt work out,maybe you'll learn to invest only a
>piece your heart.
>Maybe not the advice you'ld like to hear right now but if you
>can get away with it,its always good to be in control.

Sounds like the guy to me :D

[wahenga]

>>blkbabe, what is his name? i've read several posts of such
>>kind. why cant u post that thread here ;)
>>
>>But wow, ati the advisor eloped with him? I see things in
>here
>>are more serious than I thought. I always think pple are
>>fooling and flirting around but apparently it's always
>>serious. hmmmmm....
>
>damn Bikbabe hata mimi I think you should toboa.Hiyo ni tabia
>mbovu.


mhh mhh..KEMI & CB lets get that extra mile, bottom line wot the loser did to BLKBABE is uncouth, bt tellin ha to toboa and name da culprit alone wont fil up da puzzle....rem theiz dat chik (a mashadite) who waz givin da loser advice and finally eloped wit him...i wonder who she iz
and CB thinkin of it.....ITS MASHADA, NOTHIN IS NORMAL IN HERE