[mahatma]

>I guess she'd rather be dead than single. Your pal sounds
>like one very daft broad. I suggest you either:
>
>a) Stay out of the whole affair.
>
>or
>
>b) Beat her to a pulp unless she goes for the test.
>
>Take your pick.

@Wired,
Come on, tell it to her straight! Its not like you to beat around the shrubs!:-)

@Poster
Okay, let me translate what my buddy Wired is trying to politely tell you..

Both of you broads are very daft and given a chance, he would beat both of you to a pulp.}(

No thanks neccessary. Just doing my good deed of the day.

[angelwings]

>>I guess she'd rather be dead than single. Your pal sounds
>>like one very daft broad. I suggest you either:
>>
>>a) Stay out of the whole affair.
>>
>>or
>>
>>b) Beat her to a pulp unless she goes for the test.
>>
>>Take your pick.
>
>@Wired,
>Come on, tell it to her straight! Its not like you to beat
>around the shrubs!:-)
>
>@Poster
>Okay, let me translate what my buddy Wired is trying to
>politely tell you..
>
>Both of you broads are very daft and given a chance, he would
>beat both of you to a pulp.}(
>
>No thanks neccessary. Just doing my good deed of the day.

miss phat...
u need to tell ur gal to wake up... ala, there's so much more to life than one dude that ain't going for an HIV test! sheesh, akuje kenya wanaume wamejaa chungu mzima na vct zimetandaa kokote! (angelwings puts away her kamusi)

life's too short!


People are often unreasonable, llogical and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

[angelwings]

>>I guess she'd rather be dead than single. Your pal sounds
>>like one very daft broad. I suggest you either:
>>
>>a) Stay out of the whole affair.
>>
>>or
>>
>>b) Beat her to a pulp unless she goes for the test.
>>
>>Take your pick.
>
>@Wired,
>Come on, tell it to her straight! Its not like you to beat
>around the shrubs!:-)
>
>@Poster
>Okay, let me translate what my buddy Wired is trying to
>politely tell you..
>
>Both of you broads are very daft and given a chance, he would
>beat both of you to a pulp.}(
>
>No thanks neccessary. Just doing my good deed of the day.

miss phat...
u need to tell ur gal to wake up... ala, there's so much more to life than one dude that ain't going for an HIV test! sheesh, akuje kenya wanaume wamejaa chungu mzima na vct zimetandaa kokote! (angelwings puts away her kamusi)

life's too short!


People are often unreasonable, llogical and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

[Wired Wierd]

>@Wired,
>Come on, tell it to her straight! Its not like you to beat
>around the shrubs!:-)
>
>@Poster
>Okay, let me translate what my buddy Wired is trying to
>politely tell you..
>
>Both of you broads are very daft and given a chance, he would
>beat both of you to a pulp.}(
>
>No thanks neccessary. Just doing my good deed of the day.

Ahem... a case of anything I say shall be taken, misquoted and used against me old boy? ;)

Anyway @Poster, sometimes to help your loved ones you have to play the devil's role. Either that or hands off.

Capisce?

[miss phat]

>>I guess she'd rather be dead than single. Your pal sounds
>>like one very daft broad. I suggest you either:
>>
>>a) Stay out of the whole affair.
>>
>>or
>>
>>b) Beat her to a pulp unless she goes for the test.
>>
>>Take your pick.
>
>@Wired,
>Come on, tell it to her straight! Its not like you to beat
>around the shrubs!:-)
>
>@Poster
>Okay, let me translate what my buddy Wired is trying to
>politely tell you..
>
>Both of you broads are very daft and given a chance, he would
>beat both of you to a pulp.}(
>
>No thanks neccessary. Just doing my good deed of the day.

This is for you "So fellow mashadites advice pliz sensible advice for that matter if u got nothing useful to say dont say it here!Si kwa ubaya."



"You have ONE advantage over me.....you can kiss my ass and I can't!!"

[m kenya]

Miss phat ever heard of the co-dependency syndrome? one of its symptoms include an almost messianic zeal to sort out other peoples problems, not out of love/concern/or whatever you call it, but rather, because of some weird psycho prob, you have projected yourself into your friends shoes......as someone said before, if your buddy is the same age as you i.e 22 years and above, she is capable of making sober decisions,.......MYOB..

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[candypie]

Friendship is a very funny thing.It's clear that you really love your galfriend and you care 'bout what happens in her life and you can see her guy is tripping.But sweetie,she's not as clear headed as you're coz she's simply foolishly in love.So these are those times when you just stand at a corner and watch what happens.She either gets hurt or her guy stops tripping(if he's tripping).Let experience be her best teacher coz the more you interfere the more it doesn't make sense to your bestfriend why you would want her to break up with a guy.On the issue of HIV,don't judge until you have like clear evidence,I don think you'd feel good if you heard pple r saying you have it too.

[TeamManager]

@miss phat

I would like to give my honest opinion, BUT your story is full of hearsay and alot of 'hearing stories', 'smoke/fire', 'apparently', 'he brags...' etc that I can tell where the TRUTH starts.

Otherwise the best you can do is to lay the FACTS on the table and let her decide.

MORALS aside, you friend has only known this shaddy character for FOUR months and she is already having sex with him ..... worse, without any protection? Please recommend a HIV test.

[mukash_]

In this time and age how do yu shag bila cd without confirming someone’s status?

@missphat

I know yu are looking out for ua gal and twill be so hard esp. if she is love. The only thing yu can do is try and make her smell the coffee coz at this rate it’s over cooking. We are talking abt HIV here. Ask her if she’s willing to risk her life and die coz of this dude?
True, its rumours WTF it’s the truth? Ask her to use cds meanwhile as she decides wat to do. I’m sure she is so confused at this point.