[steven]

i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good 24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to play macho and rough?

[Beenie_gal]

play macho and rough 4 a while........then when she is used 2 u...go back 2 being shy!!
but i prefer rough hard guyz!!!!


*once u go black u never go back!!*

[supermann]

relax bruh,let it happen.funny thing iz when you just let it happen spontaneously,its sweetest."it" gets you unexpectedly.dont force your hand in fate.

anyway,hope you find ze woman of ze dreamz.

ps:next time you see that lady you've alwayz liked in a social place,order a coupla terquila shots.chase it down with JD,mint for you mouth and just walk up to her and say wazzup.


caution:results vary :7

[Nxele]

>i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an
>international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy
>and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am
>only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who
>are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice
>and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good
>24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a
>good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to
>play macho and rough?

Reminds me one hot summer time at Lalapanzi. We had left jobo earlier than usual lying by the pool side sipping on some mazoe citrius juice. Some dude had insisted on having the TV brought to the pool-side and CNN was showing. On CNN it was the inauguration of Joseph Kabila as the president of DRC a young lad of 29 . I happened to have wondered aloud "That jomba is slightly older than me and he is President where did I go wrong?" .One of my buddies said "I did everything right as I was told , even went to church every sunday and here I am." . This old dude who was basking by the pool-side said,"I know where you guys went wrong." Spontaneously we all blurted out "WHERE!" and he said "You all followed the rules". On that sweltering afternoon at Lalapanzi it dawned on me how the game of life is played by the winners.

[gorgy]

>i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an
>international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy
>and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am
>only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who
>are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice
>and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good
>24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a
>good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to
>play macho and rough?


Don't try to be someone else,lf you are cool,you are cool.like someone said no hurry maybe you woman is yet to come.And who knows maybe if you try to play macho and rough as you say,you might not get a good gal as you want.So,just be yourself and you'll get the woman of your life.

[cwangari]

>i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an
>international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy
>and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am
>only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who
>are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice
>and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good
>24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a
>good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to
>play macho and rough?

First you need to stop calling them 'galz / gal', unless you have been looking in all the wrong places like NDUU i.e Kindergarten, Primary school? etc nway if you want to meet a nice lady, stop looking just be you!

[mukash_]

Sadly, most women are attracted to arrogant men. That’s why you read all the time “Looking for Mr. Right”. Not knowing we missed the bus, when that good man hit on yu and lengad.
Don’t change who you are just to fit in someone else’s shoes. Take ua time yu will land you the woman of ua dreams.

[Beenie_gal]

>First you need to stop calling them 'galz / gal', unless you
>have been looking in all the wrong places like NDUU i.e
>Kindergarten, Primary school? etc

hahahaha..... u really crack me up......LOL!!


*once u go black u never go back!!*

[crazy boo]

>
>
>Sadly, most women are attracted to arrogant men. That’s why
>you read all the time “Looking for Mr. Right”. Not knowing we
>missed the bus, when that good man hit on yu and lengad.
>Don’t change who you are just to fit in someone else’s shoes.
>Take ua time yu will land you the woman of ua dreams.
>


hata kama man! there are some jamaas out there who are real breezers(mfa copyright)...s'times I feel as though I can even help them out bana with the vybe. being shy is s'thing everybody should outgrow.When I was in primary school never talked a whole lot...in high school talked talked a little bit sasa just a week ago I made an impromptu speech infront of a hall with kindu 450 occupants...get the drift you have to fight your fears otherwise you'll die shy:(

[NDUU MWANA A NGUNGU]

>hata kama man! there are some jamaas out there who are real
>breezers(mfa copyright)...s'times I feel as though I can even
>help them out bana with the vybe. being shy is s'thing
>everybody should outgrow.When I was in primary school never
>talked a whole lot...in high school talked talked a little bit
>sasa just a week ago I made an impromptu speech infront of a
>hall with kindu 450 occupants...get the drift you have to
>fight your fears otherwise you'll die shy:(


Iam not shy,but I always get stage fright while infront of a crowd!Coooz of all the 'wow'!that I get from young lasses apparently coz of my...........
@steven if you cant be confident enough to shake off your shyness,then try getting proffessional help!kuna therapy za haya.
If everything fails then jaribu KERORO top it up with some weed,and nigga you'll be the greatest!