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mahatma · (#1 (**permalink**))

Crucial Advice

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. Thanks in advance.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been seeing someone else. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?

I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girlfriend. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?

Please advise me.

Jackos · (#2 (**permalink**))

a fool who stays mum is better than a hundred wise men who say ####t.

Maddox · (#3 (**permalink**))

I have this feeling that you are not a rookie in all these, it sounds like your familiar turf! Without indulging into the nitty-gritties, and from what you say, the signs are SCREAMING loud at you man: any relationship with an iota of distrust is not about to succeed. Simple,just compose yourself, pick the little that you can lay your hands on and haul ass.

lilfox12 · (#4 (**permalink**))

Aiii! Is no one else seeing this as a joke! LOL! Nice one @ Maha! I was beginning to think that this was finally 'humanising' you until...
Is Nduu rubbing off on folks here?

chemical · (#5 (**permalink**))

LMAO at the image of you crouched behind your car at 1am waiting to see who drops mama off...

Maddox · (#6 (**permalink**))

>Aiii! Is no one else seeing this as a joke! LOL! Nice one @
>Maha! I was beginning to think that this was finally
>'humanising' you until...
>Is Nduu rubbing off on folks here?

Hehehe! Thanks, had actually missed the joke! I almost thought the bloke was agonizing!

imported_muchai_1 · (#7 (**permalink**))

nice one....i bet some folks here don't see the joke

shayvonne · (#8 (**permalink**))

LMMFAO!1 HEHE................

Lemme stop frontin' bana someone pliz explain the joke ,,i read tht shyt kidu 10 tymes,,bilaz..muchai explian bana?? im floatin

FISI_1 · (#9 (**permalink**))

>LMMFAO!1 HEHE................
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>Lemme stop frontin' bana someone pliz explain the joke ,,i
>read tht shyt kidu 10 tymes,,bilaz..muchai explian bana?? im
>floatin

"It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?"

This is the joke.Nice joke jamaa

NDUU MWANA A NGUNGU · (#10 (**permalink**))

@maha,One thing you ought to know is that too much curiousity*sp killed tha cat,Meeeeen don't be so nosey,lest you gonna end up badly hurt!
And most importantly,give your missus all tha freedom you possibly can-show her that you do care!.