What to Do?????????/

luvly_lady · (#1 (**permalink**))

wassup good people ive been loggin into this chat for a whilen ow and ive seen pple giving sound advice and others..........lets not go there well heres my dilemma ive been dating thiss jamaa lets call him x for 3yrs wevebeen having the usual issues domez but now last week he calls me up we hook up for lunch while we are talking he tells me ati he wants a break to sort out stuff ati he needs his space but that doesnt mean he doesnt loveme and all he jst wants time alone i was shocked i maintained my cool and asked him why ??and if his sure abt it and if it will break us or make us
Men im so hurt by this i dont want to push him further dont know what to do jamaas pliz tell me what u guys mean whenu say you want a break and chicks have u ever had a jamaa who u he wants a break or dudes your chick says she wants one and wht cut after that..........no sarcasm pllliiz

sendii · (#2 (**permalink**))

i ain't being sacarstic or anything but here's the REAL deal, the dude has a chic on the side and he wants to hit the skins without a guilty conscience. Better move on gal.

gorgy · (#3 (**permalink**))

You know what gal?this guy has got a new catch.So,you better move on as hard as it is.

supermann · (#4 (**permalink**))

i once asked my chic to gimme space.i waznt cheating or nothin',she waz CROWDING me.

they say men are like rubber bands,let them stretch,be alone for a bit,then they come back with evenmore love than before.you must've been on hiz face every day,all the time,everywhere.c'mon,let him be for a while.keep yourself busy and do your own thang.this iz the time to bond properly with your galfriends (and dont tell 'em whats going down cuz all they do iz b1tch and ruin everything in the long run).

twill work out,you'll see.hang in there.

crazy boo · (#5 (**permalink**))

>i once asked my chic to gimme space.i waznt cheating or
>nothin',she waz CROWDING me.

sorry but had to laugh at the crowding effect:D:D:D:D:D:D

as opposed to superman im'ma tell you to bounce right now. sh.it gonna get worse...is about time you got over his a.s.s...kama ako na haja atakutafuta and by then you will have a hard rock heart that doesn't give a damn...as in, unapeana 75% love but 25% is for security purposes...incase of a break up hutakuwa that affected. I promised myself will never give my heart 100....that's crap.The only person who DESERVES such love is my mother.....hao wengine NEED to work for it!

dudette · (#6 (**permalink**))

When chiles start whining like this I tells them to sharrup and dance.

UFO · (#7 (**permalink**))

Don't delete all his contacts yet just in case he changes his mind but honestly, I think you should start looking for somebody else. This has all the signs of a break-up.
good luck.

cwangari · (#8 (**permalink**))

I think tis time for you to expore, this is your chance to explore the waters! kubaff itarudi ikichoka! if he does, let him sweat hard looking for you! I can reassure you whatever he has found at the moment will not last! they always come back crawling like constipated cockroaches!

cwangari · (#9 (**permalink**))

Why do Men think with their third head! Space for what! I cannot tolerate such crap! Am crowding YOUR SPACE!!! I can blow off his nuts if he uttered those words to me!! HOW the heck am I crowding YOUR SPACE! 3years then you decide you want space! he can as well hit the highway with his bobbitted d1ck then he can see who will want him! NGAI FAFA! HELP ME PLEASE!!

chemical · (#10 (**permalink**))

>Why do Men think with their third head! Space for what! I
>cannot tolerate such crap! Am crowding YOUR SPACE!!! I can
>blow off his nuts if he uttered those words to me!! HOW the
>heck am I crowding YOUR SPACE! 3years then you decide you want
>space! he can as well hit the highway with his bobbitted d1ck
>then he can see who will want him! NGAI FAFA! HELP ME PLEASE!!

I've been wondering why you have so much bile for nduu...but after reading the above....you need anger management....I can see how someone would need space from you!! and btw jokes about bobbit are in the same taste as jokes about rape, child porn.. etc but I suspect you joke not!