[wayliaus]

Hello people,
I am a lady, and i have an issue i would like ur comments on....
i am happily married, financially secure and all and i love my husband,(a jungu) but there is this guy i know since kitambo..... i guess i know him since i was in primary school and my paro and his paros also know each other, but he claims still to love me and all, and honestly speaking , i still care about him( we had a whirlwind romance at one point of our lives and had sex,once) now he says he still loves me although i live and work in europe.He now tells me he wants to marry a certain chik in nai but will only do it when i allow him.

what should i do and is this guy really still into me ama ni storo tu??? and do i allow him to marry (remember he just told me that he has known this chik for a weeek!!!!!!!!!!!!) and that the chik knows all bout me and him but still ready to marry him(is even ready to share him ati)......jeez, i mean it sounds absurd but he believes that since this chile cares for him, he wants to do it and also says my love confused him!!!!(((((i take that as a compliment)))))

He also told me leo, that he lost his virginity with me and that he hasnt had any sex since the last time with me(almost 6 years ago) hahahhahhahah gotta laugh at this confession.

Can men really stay so long without sex???? and can i believe that... ????

ADvice please.

[krukedq]

Let me see if i have all the facts straight so you are a happily married,financially secure woman who is married to a man that you love BUT you are asking for our opinion about a guy who is willing to marry a chick who he has known for only 1 week,a chick who is by the way ready to share him with you and to crown it all the guy claims to have abstained from sex for the past 6 yrs .....

....It seems some men have perfected the art of lying !
First of all how many women are actually willing to share a man ....you don,t have any hold on him....Isnt he by all means currently still single? so why would she offer to share?Shes only known the dude for a week so why the hurry to get married ama did i miss the announcement during the last budget day that the price of shuma had gone up mpaka pple are scrambling to get married so as to have a constant supply!......This particular part of the story sounds like a fantasy on his part he needs to WAKE UP! Either that or THEY are planning to share you FINANCIALLY...coz it all sounds very fake....
THEN he is also claiming to have abstained for 6 yrs ....so basically he has never touched this chick who he plans to marry...( u know how men are about taking the car for a test drive before buying it )...or for that matter any other woman in 6 yrs.....to that, all i can say is that he is either a shameless liar or he must be suffering from the Blue ball syndrome that kenyan men claim to suffer from after not having sex for long periods of time....

TO cut a long story short...he's a no good,LYING piece of shyte !

But anyway out of curiosity.... now that we are discussing this OTHER man where does your beloved husband fall in this picture? or is he scheduled to be subtracted from the equation once this long distance threesome is arranged?

[wayliaus]

I love my Hubby and this guy is just an old flame which i got over with and i dont understand why he is trying to get me back.....

I wont leave my husband(not now and never) and not for him.

Why he is trying to confuse me with his story..is what i cant understand.

Anyway i will allow him to marry the other one week chik if it pleases him.

[mahatma]

Bwehehehehe!
Only in Mashada can you find people who are this daft! LMAO!

[wahenga]

gal u said u already have a superb marriage....dont let go wot u have now,let the past (as in wot u had with dat jamaa ehh breakin his virginity hehehe and all( be da past...dats history

[Mand meru]

Girl, you are dumb, daft and confused. Restrict such farfetched storos to your weekly salon visit.

[KEMINOKANA]

>I love my Hubby and this guy is just an old flame which i got
>over with and i dont understand why he is trying to get me
>back.....
>
>I wont leave my husband(not now and never) and not for him.
>
>Why he is trying to confuse me with his story..is what i cant
>understand.
>
>Anyway i will allow him to marry the other one week chik if it
>pleases him.

Why then are you bothered by this jamaa if
1. You love your hubby
2. You'll never leave your hubby
3. Are happily married

Why are you bothered whether what he tells is true or not? Why are you bothered whether he marries ten women he has known for only 15 minutes?

Wacha kumanga manga and take care of your hubby.

[Sanaa-]

Allow him to marry??!


Only in Mashada !

[crazy boo]

>
>Why then are you bothered by this jamaa if
>1. You love your hubby
>2. You'll never leave your hubby
>3. Are happily married

you read my mind for real...some questions just kosa sense



>Wacha kumanga manga and take care of your hubby.
>
seconded...:D:D:D

[ka joe]

Eeehh..wrong forum. kwenda to misterseed...