[Kamami]

I got to know this. What is it that first made your head turn and you say this is it - I have met her/him and I feel it deep in my heart.
I can confidently say that I have never been in love until last year - Don't get me wrong, I thought I was in love a couple times and I did enjoy some of the experiences I learnt from there but alas I fell hard and that's when it occurred to me that I was not in love before.

I like going to the club, y'know I don't drink or smoke so I get my personal high from the club music and it's so bad that when you see me at 4am you can bet hard cash that I am drunk. I am so disorderly, yelling everywhere LMAO and many people have tried to bed me assuming I am drunk only to get a rude shock that I am so sober it ain't funny.

Anyway, I been going to the club a lot and if I did not have a ride or car (at the time) I would take the metro or whatever to get my groove on. I been seeing some dudes and been saying his to them. I am a very friendly person and make friends quickly especially in the dance floor while I am trying to enforce my "effrakata" moves.
You know how you see someone and never pay attention to him or her at all. I used to see this dude and it never occurred to me to pay attention. I always say that if you want to get a guy, just chill out, keep looking good and if he has the guts he will finally ask for your number.

Well, one such club day I am dancing with my girl (you know how we do - all girls circles and stuff) and this guy asks me for a dance and I agree and then he smiled! I was floored, next thing I was thinking, I like that smile I would want my baby to have that smile. He did not speak much but we danced and he held me tight and time to go home he asked me for
CC
my number.

I was smitten and the love bug had bitten me.
Just that smile and I fell in love – how about you all.
You remember what it was that made you go WOW I like that and I want that.

[Rani]

How did it work out?

Sometimes ya think you have met "him" but kumbe he was just being polite in asking for ya number?

[Kamami]

Do you really want me to expound on that? I could write my own Kama Sutra on account of him (Hope that answers your query)

[Blueberry]

Smitten like a kitten?

[sexxiee]

i know what you mean Kamami. I fell in love with my current man the same way. I remember i froze the first time i saw him cause he so much looked like a famous rapper i truly adore and i was like 'damn'. we didn't meet a the bar though. it was on a more open place and it was during the da. He had a girlfriend at the time so i had a big crush on him for a long time until one day we hooked up without me telling him how i feel. i kinda made sure he noticed me every time i knew we would meet. i always had a way of making him laugh (and i still do)but the thing that made me fall in love with this man is his brain, his sense of humour and lord God.......his fine ass body. mm mm mm.
Sorry i got too carried away. The point is, Love is worth trying. You've got nothing to lose. It might hurt you when it ends but it would hurt you even more if you don't try.
You go girl.....party up! life is short but take care.

[halfloaf]

when i me my first love i never knew what he looked ike because i met him online. when we met face to face we talked for hours like we been friends for long. we dated for two yrs untill the sweet became the sour. i left him because of reasons best known to us. i was hurt soo much but i found out that my best bud had been there for me thru thick and thin i didn't ever realise i was in love untill i kissed him.im much happeirnow and i don't have to worry about what pple think. he is the best thing that has happened to me .too bad i wasted two yrs of my life dating an ass .but life's like tha u never know untill u try.

[fetish]

Am I the only one who is manless? Yawa, nitatafuta wapi!!!

[kibz]

>Am I the only one who is manless? Yawa, nitatafuta wapi!!!
>

By calling yourself fetish guys think they can tomba tomba you ovyo ovyo...just change your name & men will be all over your a!ss...

[slaggard]

KIBZ...u dont have to be rude to that babe.

FETISH,,,, yah time will come, maybe the man u lookin for is around you, but u too busy lookin elsewhere. yah name is pretty,,,fetish--i love that.

[princess cm]

mine is a sad love story and its way to painfull to go into details about so al just give you the short version. From the very first time i saw him i just thought he was the cuttest guy around(still think so). we talked for a good amount of time but the next time i saw him he acted like he didnt know me. we met alot of times after that and he would stear at me but never just come and talk to me.a nyway one time my buddies convinced me to go to this party and he was there and we hit it off again had alot of fun. am to turn around like this a guy is dancing with another chic(she was grinding on him seroiusly) and he didnt seem to mind so i just let him be. the next time i saw him he had a chic so i just gave up on him all together. he is still in my dreams though ...too bad