[slaggard]

talk about CRUSHES. dayuum i like the way that sounds. why dont u go to that brotha and pull him by the collar....maybe u come upon him in a way that he doubts what u really are all about. some women can be so stiff mpaka all those attempts to mack them just vanish...u know that no nonsense face. some brothas get intimidated by that...and maybe his grinding with that chic was a reation spotter from you. cross the line gal...do something silly, get inappropriately close, hold his hand unexpectendly, ask him for a dance. do that for yourself,,,,i bet he will follow thru if he deserves you.