15 Yr Age difference but I still love him.. - Page 2

isso · (#11 (**permalink**))

Nasimiyu...

I think you should listen to the jamaa and marry him this fall...and then go ahead and start having babies....I mean, if his eldest daughter has a grandchild (this one I can't figure out....but its a damn good one)you've got a hell of a lot of catching up to do...And how dare you even think of leaving the town he is in, huh? After 3 years you're gonna do him like that?....

DHUH!

Now what do you exactly want us to do....make you feel better about leaving?

Swee'art...if you're big enough and have the "balls" (excuse my lack of a better expression) to get involved in such a r/ship....you should be big enough to make decisions about what you want in your life and live with those decisions....

Nobody said this was going to be easy....

"But do I have to sout about it?"

nasimiyu · (#12 (**permalink**))

ok BINLADEN...(There ..look no..'N').Thanks for your maoni.

nyawera_1 · (#13 (**permalink**))

Kwanza, can you tell us how it is possible for his daughter to be a grandmother before I unleash advice.
i.e. how old was he when he fathered her
how old was she when she gave birth
how old was the kid when they fathered/gave birth

Rani · (#14 (**permalink**))

Isso you have spoken.

nasimiyu · (#15 (**permalink**))

Geez men..y'all mashadites don't play..
It is not like I a helpless Jerry Springer wannabe looking for someone to hold my hand and TELL me what to do.
I mean if you cannot even post your thoughts under a relationship discussion without getting hit over the head about it! I do appreciate you views..both positive and negative...Asante

nasimiyu · (#16 (**permalink**))

His daughter is not a grandmama..she is 16 and had a baby when she was 14..He is a grandfather...

isso · (#17 (**permalink**))

Nasimiyu...

It's not about hitting you hard over the head with anything...

You're just asking us to confirm the Pope is catholic....

Some things are best told bluntly....

"But do I have to sout about it?"

nyawera_1 · (#18 (**permalink**))

Ok! thanks for clarifying...I thought my math skills had gone to waste.
lemme say it for you....

leave him and don't turn back, he is doing nothing for you and carries too much baggage. Kwanza he has made it easier with the ultimatum.

BYW are his fudhis gray?

nasimiyu · (#19 (**permalink**))

No nyawera..they are not grey..LOL...
Thanks isso...-you are right.

MercedesK · (#20 (**permalink**))

One mistake females make is to trust jamaas too much with their lives. Kwani he is God? Stop giving him too much power.

Merck.