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Default why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 05:55 AM

There is this problem of a couple dating for long but when it comes to settling down and marriage the guy backs off?



 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 06:04 AM

i think some women make the following mistakes
-get a boyfriend after dumping their current boyfriend thinking he will appreciate.THE GUY KNOWS THE SAME WAY U LEFT UR BF IS THE SAME WAY U WILL LEAVE HIM
-i think mistreating ur boyfriend is one reason the guy will stomach it and when it comes to settling down he will leave.
-appreciating someone when they have nothing: not appreciating a man when he has nothing is fatal.when he makes it he will remember all he went through .
supporting a man when he is down and out when he makes it any man with a sober mind wouldnt leave a woman who stood by him when he had nothing

 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 06:07 AM

ok, on a serious note .... people have many reasons for their inability to sustain a long-term relationship or get into marriage. Most of this people are are perfectionists, hunters, lust-seekers, or are just happy being single.

It would never be fair to blame women in such a situation ....
 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 06:44 AM

!!!!!!!!!PROZAC!!!!!!
 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 08:44 AM

MEN CHASE WOMEN THEY HAVE NO INTENTION OF MARRYING.FOR THE SAME REASON DOGS CHASE CARS THEY HAVE NO INTENTION OF DRIVING.
 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 09:35 AM

There are many harmless ways in which even attractive women scare men and love away.
THE 5 SENSES:WHEN YOU DONT GET PAST SQUARE ONE
-Be a heavy smoker
-Wear too much make-up or jewelry
-appear much older than you are
-Look unhealthy or be anorexic
-Have poor posture
-Dress like an exbitionist
-Have an irritating sounding voice

WHEN YOU ARE TOO MANLY
-Be a comedian and not resist a punch line
-Be too much of a sports joke or bee too competitive
-agressivley pursue meeting me.
-Cuss and get angry in public
-Be too sexually forward especially in public
-Eat like a horse
-shake hands or walk like a guy
-Talk too much abt yourself.
-Be too business-like

PERSONALITY QUIRKS:WHEN YOU ARE TOO STRANGE

-Have a weird sense of humour or laugh at the wrong time
-Wear Bizzare cloths
-Be too hyper,antsy or emotionally high-strung
-Stare at people too long
-Be know-it-all
-Be painfully shy
Be a big fun of the occult
-Use unconsious programming or hypnosis techniques

BIG MOUTH:WHEN YOU TALK YOUR WAY OUT OF LOVE

-Gossip excessively
-Use baby talk in the wrong situations
-Refer often to past lovers
-Be highly opiniated or voice a strong prejudice
-say gross or distastefil things like "i got diarrhoea"
-Talk too much and never listen
Express with wild gestures
-Talk abt how many ponds you've lost(if alot)
-Ask too many questions that make him feel uncormfotable
-Be too caught up in the whole romance thing
-treat him like one of the girls
-Do a bad job of talking dirty in the effort to turn him on

WHEN LIVING WITH YOU LOOKS LIKE A BIG HUZZLE

-Own too many pets especially cats
-Being too religious fer him
-Be a total neat freak
-Be a hard-core feminist
-refer often to your biological clock ticking away
-own too many credit cards and come across as a big shopper
Talk abt the dream hse and lifestyle that HE could never afford
-Have a reputation for being flacky
Live in a bad part of town
Have a bad job or lack any vocational competence

WHEN U DONT PASS THE AUDITION

-Be a bad dancer and insist on dancing
-Order the most expensive dinner entree
-Flirt with others when on a date
-Run into many men that you know while on a date
-Spend too much time in the ladies room
-Talk too long on the cellfone when on a date
-Get sloppy drunk or throw up on a date
-Come across as hard-to-please
-Point out all the cute guys you see
-Let him find out that you're into personal ads or internet dating
& lastly..()

LOVE PRESSURE:WHEN THINGS HAPPEN TOO FAST FOR HIM

-Leave personal things at his place
-Have awkward sex too early
-Try to change or improve him
-Call him pet names like 'sweety/honiey' too early on
-Shower him with gifts before he gives u anything
-Send him cards with strong feelings revealed early
-Call him frequently and leave messeges
-refer him as your bfie when its only date #2 or #3
Like him significantly more than he like u early on
-Insist on meetimg his family before that thought ever occurs to him

MEN ARE SUBCONSIOUSLY AFRAID OF WOMEN

 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 12:12 PM

>MEN CHASE WOMEN THEY HAVE NO INTENTION
>OF MARRYING.FOR THE SAME REASON DOGS
>CHASE CARS THEY HAVE NO INTENTION OF
>DRIVING.

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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 02:21 PM

dont want no bionic lady

i'm so sick AIDS is scared to catch me.- ~Canibus~
 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-21-2002, 04:56 PM

>MEN CHASE WOMEN THEY HAVE NO INTENTION
>OF MARRYING.FOR THE SAME REASON DOGS
>CHASE CARS THEY HAVE NO INTENTION OF
>DRIVING.

Heee...YAWA!!!!!

 
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Default RE: why do some men refuse to marry some chics? - 09-24-2002, 12:05 PM

CUZ WOMEN ARE THE SHYSTIEST CREATURES ALIVE.

-THEY WILL DOG --I'VE NEVER KNOWN A FAITHFUL WOMAN NOR A MARRIAGE THAT HAD NO DOGGIN SO IF YOU WILL DOG EACH OTHER WHY WASTE THE TIME AND MONEY TO GET MARRIED?--

- *****EZ WILL F@CK YOUR SELF IMAGE TO THE POINT YOU DON'T BELIVE YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT HER WHEN IN REALITY WHEN YOU MET HER YOU WERE DOING GOOD ENOUGH FOR HER TO DATE YOUR *****

-THESE HO'S IS CRAZY THEY TREAT YOU LIKE CRAP BUT WHEN YOU STEP OFF THEY COME AROUND YOUR CRIB AT NIGHT HOLLERING ... BANGING YOUR DOOR... CALLING YOUR JOB... POPPING UP UNEXPECTEDLY WHEN YOU OUT WITH ANOTHER SHORTIE OR WHATEVER... AND REMEMBER THIS IS THE SAME HO THAT ALWAYS *****ED ABOUT YOU SAYING SH!T LIKE

-YOU SPEND TOO MUCH TIME WITH YOUR BOYZ --THEY DON'T CROWD ME--

-YOU DON'T TAKE ME OUT NO MORE --MAYBE BECAUSE EVERTIME WE GO SOMEWHERE YOU START ******IN AND END UP IN A CORNER SOMEWHERE SULKING TALKIN ABOUT I WANNA GO HOME!--

-WE DONT TALK ANYMORE --NO B!T.CH I JUST DON'T LISTEN TO YOUR SH!T NO MORE THERE'S A DIFFERENCE--

-YOU DON'T TREAT ME LIKE YOU USED TO. --DAMN RIGHT WHEN I MET YOU YOU WERE 5'9" 120LBS DRESSED TO KILL COCO CHANNNEL WAS ALL THAT WAS LEFT WHEN YOU PASSED BY... AND NOW YOUR FAT, SLOBBY, FUNKY, NO COOKIN, STAY IN SWEATS 24-7 ASS IS DEFINATLY WHAT I DONT WANT TO SEE AFTER A LONG DAY AT WORK--

-YOU FORGOT OUR ANNIVERSARY --WELL GODDAMIT I REMEMBERED TO PUT A ROOF OVER YOUR *****, A CAR IN THE DRIVEWAY, FOOD IN THE GODDAMN REFRIGERATOR SO CUT ME SOME SLACK SH*T IF IT WAS SO IMPORTANT AND YOU KNOW ME THAT WELL THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN I'D FORGET AND YOUR CONDESCENDING ***** SHOULD HAVE REMINDED ME!--

AND STOP WATCHING THOSE GODDAMN DAYTIME T.V SHOWS WHAT THE F@CK DO YOU THINK OPRAH WILL DO FOR YOU OTHER THAN TAKE YOUR MONEY WHEN YOU BUY HER MAGAZINE, HER VIDEO, HER LINE OF CLOTHING... YOU STUPID BRAINWASHED B!T.CH IF OPRAH HURLED IN A BOTTLE WOULD YOU BUY THAT TOO...?


MA BAD YA'LL I JUST HAD TO VENT FOR A SEC FOR ALL THE REAL N!GGAZ OUT THERE WHO DO WHAT THEY SUPPOSED TO DO AND STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH BULLSH!T...

TO ALL THE SINGLE FATHER'S WHO WOULD RATHER LIVE WITH THEIR KIDS F@CK THAT STANK HO...

TO ALL THE N!GGAZ PAYING CHSUPP NOT BECAUSE THE HAVE TO BUT BECAUSE IT'S WHAT THEY SUPPOSED TO DO.... --AND TO YOU TOO WHO KNOWS FOR A FACT THAT DAMN KID AINT YOURS SH!.T THE LITTLE BASTARD IS PUERTO-RICAN AND YOUR ***** IS BLACK... BUT YOU DO IT CUZ IT AINT THE KID'S FAULT THAT MOMMA WAS A HO!--

TO ALL THE N!GGAZ OUT THERE WHO LIVE BY THE WORDS OF CALVIN "SNOOP" BROADUS

--B!T.CHEZ AIN'T SH*T BUT HOES AND TRICKS--

 
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