[Lolly]

It is possible to be 'just friends' with a member of the opp sex.Lakini its hard and at one time,at least once,...some chemistry just has to take place.Lakini the strongest true friendship bila sexual stuff I would say is between ex's.They jua each other well,they broke up coz it didn't work out and if they really want then they end up being real cool buddies!

[melissa1973]

I think the way you do that is that you let your imagination work too much. To most guys, when a lady get dressed up and a little bit too sexy.. it's that she is looking for attention.. sometimes you just feel like dressing up, feel good with yourself.. it doesn't necessarily mean you are looking. I have came across many situations where guys have messed up. And I am not saying here that girls never do.

[melissa1973]

Thanks for your nice words

[ndume1]

1. Is there really a possibility of true friendship between guys and girls? I mean here no flirting and no sex involved but still true friends.

It is possible. As I speak I can say I have a number of great friends who are women and hakuna the mdinyo factor.

2. Why is that most men are rarely satisfied when they have only one girl in their life. Why is that they need a multiplying factor. Does this mean they are by nature polygamist or they need to vary experience to enjoy life.

Why lie. it is hard to say no. It is hard to say no thank you especially when offered from some women. Principles/conviction/or whateva!!! mans most dangerous enemy is Pride. Taking flirting to another level is what leads to situations where a man is offered mdinyo and his nyege betrays him. Not all men are like that. Like somebody said above its easier to say yes than to say no and many men but not all in such situations go with the flesh/pride. The other thing about this is that most people do not understand the nature of relationships or how to build them. If you have gone out twice and have already shagged, now what kind of relationship is that? Such a foundation will have challenges. easy come easy go thats my 2 cents.

3. This brings me to the last points for ladies and how willing they are to know they are sharing their partners.

[Ferria_love1]

forever beautiful


tRUE friendship does exist between guys and girl,and true friendships undergo the tests of time,and will and determination.I am proud to say that I have had a best friend since we were little children.I am 20 yrs old now.He's called Oliver and he is one year older than me.I used to have a crush on him,and he too had one on me,but those days,it was hormornes.But we were tere for each other when we neede it,and sometimes,just the look was all we neede to reassure each other that our friendship was for real and that we would love each other forever.
However,u go thru some milestones that can break you or make you guys stronger.Sometimes,##### happens that ;eaves u hanging and u don't know what to make of it.And it ususally has to do with attractions to each other.And when you're attracted to your best friend,it's the scariest feeling to ever have trust me.But u will never tell your best friend because since u value your friedship so much,u wouldn't dare mess it up.And after many yrs of those supressed feelings,u'r gonna act on them one day,at some point.From there,things may get akward,but u gotta talk about them,and be as open as possible esp after all the years of saying nothing.If your love and friendship was there and was for real,no matter how awkward the situation gets,u'll feel it,and it'll keep u going coz u know that everything's gonna be alright.

[bow]

pple are pretty young here!! U will have to meet more pple.... and yes u can have friends without any attraction....u just learn to deal with the affection when it comes.....

[muombaji]

my best friend is a guy and he has a chick...i know the chick too.... and we have been friends with the guy for like forever...i have had r/ships even as i have had this guy as a friend...so it is possible to have male/female friendships..

due to public demand i have extended my term....http://www.badassbuddy.com:8080/images/buddies/badassbuddy_com-cheer!.gif

[imported_malaika__]

well this is a nice subject... in most girls/guys relationships it's hard to maintain that distance that makes it friendship.. when it does happen.. it's either because once in a while you do some other thing together (hmmmmmmm).. One person mentionned that it's possible to be true friend after the two persond have been dating and broke up.. but in that case I would say it's even harder coz there's too much temptation there..