What does it take for....

Synikal · (#1 (**permalink**))

What is better? A long distance relationship that works or a person to person which is just ordinary?

Please be reasonable when replying.

Synikal...lol

beau_afric · (#2 (**permalink**))

hard to say...it's solely dependent on those involved. I think most women lean towards relationships that are of substance and hence may opt to sustain it regardless of obstacles e.g. distance. Most men on the other hand a merely guided by the women they are with and maybe tugged to any end of the spectrum.

Mswahili · (#3 (**permalink**))

do you trust anyone that much to have a long distance relationship?

Synikal · (#4 (**permalink**))

Just a hypothetical, lakini why have a relationship without trust anyway?

Synikal ...as they come!:9

nefertiti · (#5 (**permalink**))

If the long distance relationship is working,then whats the problem? Why the need for better?

kenyanqueen · (#6 (**permalink**))

kqueen
the way i see it it depends on what you are looking for and the kind of person you are. i for one love my space and a bit of freedom that leaves me with the long distance relationship .i have also been in one and it was the best i ever had.:-)

JustMe · (#7 (**permalink**))

ive been in a long distance relationship for a long time and as hard as it has been, i would go through it all over again, coz he makes it all worth it.

nothing works without complete trust and just coz you see a person daily, doesnt mean you can automatically trust them....
i found who i need to be with and it dont matter that im on another continent for now....i dont need to look anywhere else

chiqueafrique · (#8 (**permalink**))

Depends on how long the distance is. If the distance is an hour away then that is do able....I think up to 6 hrs away is do able.
But if you have to jump onto a plane, cross seas, climb mountains...SAHAU.... that ##### will not work. You need to be able to spend time together and grow together. The more time you are apart, the further apart you will grow as all people change with time.

Think about it.

Se**iem@m@

JustMe · (#9 (**permalink**))

i dont think statements like that make sense...1hour away, 6 hours away...what the hell does that have to do with anything....it's not like you can keep your heart on a meter...and well, if he's 6 hours and 1 minute, then the relationship is doomed...thatz crazy

anyway, every relationships is as unique as the two people involved in it, its impossible to make a rule to apply to all situations.

sooner or later, a long distance relationship either breaks down or the people find a way to be together, coz u cant be involved in something like that all your life...but again, dont judge until you've been there yourself.