DO I GO AHEAD AND DO IT ? - Page 2

TrailBlazer · (#11 (**permalink**))

Tinman,

What's clear is that what was once there between you and her is there no more. You both need to move on, for both your sake and her's but most importantly for the sake of your child.

Why mess about with any other person, especially your girl's friend? What's the message your trying to send to your girl? That two can play that game? That's so high school Tinman. The situation you are in calls for a level headed person to at least try resolve it. Don't be the fool and chase after your girl's friend, or any other woman for that matter. There's a child involved in all this whom you have to set moral examples for.

babygal · (#12 (**permalink**))

Just as Beenie Man says,
"two wrongs dont make it right"

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ONE COUNTRY, MY COUNTRY!!!

Labell · (#13 (**permalink**))

ON THE 2ND THOUGHT ABOUT THE WHOLE ISSUE..AMA YOU DON'T REP WELL IN BED.ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS;-
1)ARE YOU A ALL NIGHTER?IF YES,DO YOU SHOT ALL FIRE?
2)HOW OFTEN DO YOU CHANGE HER OIL?(GUESS)WHILE AT THAT DO YOU ROTATE THEM TYRES?

Dearly · (#14 (**permalink**))

Tinman.. dont do it.. dont get together with this friend of hers.. itd be revenge and revenge is tempting and sweet but dont do it.. dont sink down to her level, in the end she'll miss the kind of person you were to her.. walk away from the relationship and keep going, that chic doesnt deserve you.. i hope you will continue taking care of your child and you sound like you will.. you guys are not married so go... you will find another chic who will love and respect you like you deserve to be. I know it will hurt to leave this woman youve been with for so long but thats my advice.. she obviously wants out of the relationship or she would not be treating you like this. Good luck.

Synikal · (#15 (**permalink**))

TINMAN,

First of all pole sana. Your chick is dissing you , maybe she is tired of playing 'Happy families'. You mentioned that she used to do everything for you but - WHAT HAS SHE DONE FOR YOU LATELY???? :(

Lenga, don't try and get back at her, just end it and dismiss. Once its over pick up with whoever you want...her friend...not a good idea! But if you must, have her as a transitional babe!!

You may not want to hear this but you are both in the relationship for the wrong reasons, hence the consequences!!

AfricanPride · (#16 (**permalink**))

Mmmh..

She cheated on you with your best friend and you forgave her? DAYUM...boy you should have kicked that girl to the curve IMMEDIATELY. But thats just me! Some things you can learn from that are:

1. Never put your heart 100% anywhere unless there is a 100% guarantee of success. Your level of committment should match the chances of the relationship working out! (which of course is NEVER 100%).

2. Never reason with your heart. You will make serious mistakes. Use logic reasoning and end that with a statement that says " life is a biatch but you have to get married anyways LOL".

3. Never let someone else determine how you feel or how much pain you feel. Be good to yourself.

That is the only advise I can give you. DO THE RIGHT THING BUDDY!

Synikal · (#17 (**permalink**))

@ African Pride

Beautifully said!

pipitp · (#18 (**permalink**))

in my opinion you guys are just stuck together ... probably for the sake of the kid or you dont want the aibu of breaking up.

My suggestion is that you take time off to see if you can live without each other .... if you cant then get back together .... if you feel like its good riddance then stay away from each other.

That baby is no excuse for the 2 of you to die young ... or better stop sharing the bedroom ... that way you're safer than running around fantasizing and ##### out of your "marriage" then jumping into the same bed at night.

all the best :-)

zimmy · (#19 (**permalink**))

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Qwebbo · (#20 (**permalink**))

Tinman,
forget about the other woman for the moment,look at your kid.Are u staying with the #####(sorry)coz of junior...is so drop her quicker than u'd pick up an std in a whore house.In the long run it's not worth ur suffering even if it's for junior.Forget second chances,If u fully give urself to a person and they ##### on,like she did..don't sweat ur heart out coz it's not worth it.Kick the ##### out of ur house,if necessary ur life but not junior's life.Oh and the other chic...it's up to u whether ur into commitment or u just want to bonk her crazy make ur intentions known before u do anything.
One,
Qwebbo.