DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

pipitp · (#1 (**permalink**))

When is it justifiable?

For neglecting the house or children?
For going out without informing your husband?
For showing disrespect to in-laws?
For suspicion of infidelity?
For inadequate dowry and improper cooking?
For vocally abusing your husband?

This topic is sensitive to women because women underestimate domestic violence.
What can be termed as domestic violence to you? Is it only wife beating?

isso · (#2 (**permalink**))

>When is it justifiable?

Never.

>For neglecting the house or children?

Talk to her and deal with both your responsibilities and hers to make sure this doesn't happen.

>For going out without informing your
>husband?

It's common courtesy for someone to inform you what's cutting so you don't get unduly worried....Communicate with your partner to avoid such resentments mpaka no one gives a damn what the other is doing. Still no reason for unleashing violence on someone who probably can't defend herself against you...Pick on some mofo your size at the bar where you hang out so he can beat the crap out of your arse.

>For showing disrespect to in-laws?

Now why did you marry someone like that in the first place?....I somehow don't think that beating the daylights out of someone will stop them from resenting your mother for giving birth to a beast like you...

>For suspicion of infidelity?

...And why aren't you satisfying your wifey at home mpaka she's shopping?? Are you gonna beat up every woman you end up with coz' you can't deliver the goods?

>For inadequate dowry and improper
>cooking?

The dowry part is a new one, why lie...As for the cooking, LOL! These are things you deal with through improving skills...How will thumping someone make them a better cook?

>For vocally abusing your husband?

You've got bigger problems to deal with when you get to the point where your wifey disrespects you enough to abuse you live...

>This topic is sensitive to women because
>women underestimate domestic violence.
>What can be termed as domestic violence
>to you? Is it only wife beating?

No!...It's more like a cottage industry that involves a systematic unleashing of physical, verbal, psychological and sexual abuse that usually indicates that the person perpetrating such acts of violence has demons in their heads that need exorcising.

"As long as people will accept crap, it will be financially profitable to dispense it."

makaveli · (#3 (**permalink**))

There will never be a time when Domestic violence is justifiable.

Scorpion King · (#4 (**permalink**))

What is domestic violence? well i believe that if i make my woman afraid of me in anyway, that is domestic violence.

talk about making her feel like a lesser person to making her actually a lesser person.

personally i wouldnt like to beat or abuse my lady but sometimes women push us too far. sometimes you find your woman sulky, she dosent want to cook, she answers you as if you're a squatter in her land, man! give her a quick soft slap to wake her up from her daydream.

Isso not everything is as simple as you put it. you're probably too young to understand women's behaviour

isso · (#5 (**permalink**))

"" Isso not everything is as simple as you put it. you're probably too young to understand women's behaviour ""

Damn! Is that where I've been going wrong??

Sawas my guy...you choose to use soft slaps to give your woman a reality check, I choose to never let it get to that point....There's a million ways to skin a cat, and don't be fooled that if it doesn't work for you and your women, its not possible.

"As long as people will accept crap, it will be financially profitable to dispense it."

stupak · (#6 (**permalink**))

Isso let's get married!

isso · (#7 (**permalink**))

>Isso let's get married!

God! I love the 5th Amendment.

"As long as people will accept crap, it will be financially profitable to dispense it."

stupak · (#8 (**permalink**))

Comoooommmm let's get married. We'll keep it on the DL.

Scorpion King · (#9 (**permalink**))

isso women can't stay with a man who's too soft.

have you ever observed that abused women stay in their marriages longer than the women who are not laid on a finger by their men??

wait until you come to the house and find that woman at the neighbours gate gossiping about how poor you are in the bedroom, its 7.30p.m. at that time, the maid took off in the morning, the kids are not bathed, and she dosent give a #####.

infact she tells you to go ahead and cook if you're really hungry.

pipitp · (#10 (**permalink**))

LOL @ Scorpion, you must be in a messed up marriage. do you believe that its the woman's job to do all housework?