Scorpion King one thing I always say is that people need to stop being so judgemental. Anyway I hope she heals with time and contacts you to allow you to build a relationship with your daughter but you need to be very careful next time. Everything will work out if you are optimistic towards life.
in my opinion, i think that you still need some counselling. i mean you hit that lady, you dont have another girl yet .... and from your previous responses you sound like you can still hit a gal if given the chance.
Another thing, never heap your stress on alcohol ... always avoid that.
Am soo against women being chapwad. I have been married for quiet a while to Mswahili and yes she can run her mouth but once you establish grounds with each other and respect each other as friends then there should be no reason as to why we should resort to violence.
Many men who do it, do it to prove a point or because they obsereved their mothers take in such kind of treatment and understand that is the way relationships should be carried on.
I respect my bibi way too much to lay a hand on her and would rather walk away then let it get to violence. I love my daughter with all my life and I would not want her to see her mom in pain or depressed because of selfish and dominating behaviors. I love and respect me mum and sisters and I would not want them to be in a relationship where they are been beaten into bloody pulps.
Call me a ***** but I think I would rather establish a relationship with love, understanding and respect than one full of hate and resentment just because I could not control my urge to slap my bibi.
Women in abusive relationships please seek help and walk away. It never gets better nor does it change.
Hell no, domestic violence exists in many forms and most who have been in it recount that more often than not it is the emotional trauma that stays with them the rest of their lives. I cannot stand that the society I grew up in condoned violence mainly against women with excuses such as "she needs to be disciplined!" " How dare she tell me its time to go home infront of my friends?"
When did the relationship deteriorate from a loving partnership to the master-slave one? I have often wondered just how warped pple's minds can get, because more often it is all about a power struggle. The me "Tarzan" you"insignificant being" syndrome is affecting our generation as well. Oh so sad!!
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08-07-2002, 01:36 PM
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