[mwash]

Four months in a relationship a brother figured it out its not working.
(1) She complains that my friends gal/f stare at me all the time and like jokes
(2) She will get mad for no reason and i have to cancel invitations parties
or graduation claiming that if so and so is there ,I am not going.
(3) She is not clean; I mean from her body to the house it just a mess.
(4) Bad temped, from the house to work she gets in fights with the workmates
and the supervisor. Got kick out of 2 jobs in two month for that.
(5) She is poor in bed (and I am not hating) its for real and I will not give details.
(6) I hate arguments and she is the opposite. So gal do what you want but
I can’t pull a fight with you.
(7) She can’t cook, leave alone cleaning dishes after I cook, i have to do both.
(8) She always lie, if she borrow money to send home to her sister whom she claims
is very sick and end up buying cloths with the chapa, and the same to her
Whole pay checks and never pays back the loan.
(9)No women visitor after we started dating even my cousins. They will get in a fight all the time, my home boyz don’t wanna stop-by too.
(10)The only and the best one SHE IS PRETTY AS HELL. Come to looks, the gal looks g’ that, blinds every man who come on her way

I told her that the relationship was not working and we should separate and that’s when the hell broke loose threatening to commit suicide or burn my car down. Is this not crazy?
I tried to be a man not to cheat on her but be honest. But how do you tell a gal its over.
She claims she is in love with me beyond separation and seem she can do something real crazy. Help a brother out please.

[FuccDeezHoez]

vamoose trick!

[g]

In person (not email or phone call) and as soon as you realize that it ain't gonna work for you.

She could be perfect in all ways but it still does not work. You cannot avoid hurting someone when breaking up. So make up your mind and stick to it.

So you need to sit her down and tell her 'its over' they say in a neutral place not her place or your place.(God forbid if you are leaving together already)
Am gonna get for u the link from askmen.com with breaking up tips. Good luck.

[g]

http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/dating13.html

.........and don't avoid her either.... that never works and it hurts someone even more.

[Tinkerbell]

If that chik is really as bad as you say just tell her to get lost. If she says she'll burn your car tell her you'll buy another one.

If she burns it sue her. Kwanza dont let her looks fool you, that one will become an active volcano if you keep her.

Tell her your pretty and all but I do not want you. Burn my car and I'll sue you. Tell her kuna wengi wamejiua and life continues very well.

[Tinkerbell]

My very close friend had the same problem. We fixed it properly. Chiks like this talk to much. I'm telling you if you dont take care you'll be in a ditch. She is wack in bed cannot cook, complains the whole time but beautiful. Tafuta mwingine. There very many chiks whop are beautiful and good at the same time.

[mteja]

burn your car? i say if i were you i would let her down slow and easy. she sounds the type who would mess your life up if you cut her loose too quick

good luck

[ojdennis]

she better not be kenyan!!!!!

[Dearly]

she is threatening to burn your car? boy thats some psycho... well... just sit her down, have a long talk with her and ambia her all these things like youve said in your post that are driving you nuts.. then just say its time for you to move on becoz of 1,2,3.. hopefully that will work... either way sooner or later shell have to get over it.. just dont avoid her or do it thru email or voicemail tell her in person. good luck

[makaveli]

Dawg, have u watched "Thin line between love and hate". Boy, u in trouble. Move to another state, change your identity and join a monastery. Yenyewe, I dont mean to make light of ur situation, but If i was u, I would do it Naughty by Nature style. Tell her " Take your clothes, your bag and get the hell out"