this is 4 all the brothers out there - Page 2

truelove · (#11 (**permalink**))

Haaiya dont believe what these guyz tell u. U are the one who'll mess up the relationship if you believe all the pple who tell you that it cant work. It HAS worked before though pple dont believe it. I ruined a long ditance before coz everyone told me that there was NO WAY the guy could be faithful-and the worst thing was that he was. So be patient listen to your heart,-not to the skeptics out there who cant keep it in their pants!!
ps Are you just looking for an excuse to break it off coz u are tired of being so far from him?

miamama · (#12 (**permalink**))

>for all the guys who are currently in a
>long distance relationship or have ever
>been.. tell me s'thing honestly as to
>how many times do u guys really mean as
>to what u tell ur chick when u guys are
>far apart. well i am dating this guy who
>is in africa while i am here in US. he
>mails me and say a lot of sweet stuff..
>but i wonder if he always mean as to
>what he says... call it my insecurities
>or what may.. but i wonder if he just
>say those thinks to make me happy or
>does he really mean that...
>so guys help me out here.. I do love the
>guy.. but i have this instinct...

so innocent

Waleed · (#13 (**permalink**))

Every relationship is unique and so it all depends on both of you. You can build it or ruin it lakini if you are to make it....it comes with a lot of sacrifice.
It might not be worth it to commit yourself if there is no particilar set point of the long distance termination or in other words a re-union. Save yourself the heartache and get yourself free and have fun.

jei · (#14 (**permalink**))

Kusema ukweli mambo of long distance relationship, and in this case, all the way back in Africa, that's like a fairy tale. Nakuambia from experience. The relationship slowly dies away like a burning candle and as time goes by, u both have nothing to say to each other. Ultimately, u both succumb to the needs of being with someone. Then, u find yourself in another relationship. I mean, u gotta move on bana.

slaggard · (#15 (**permalink**))

hey gal, i feel u really. when i fikad this mtaa i had a honie back home. after afew months, so much had happened and honestly i could feel the drift. i was in denial, lakini i had to make some decisions. i felt no need of been selfish about stuff. i told the babe straight up...." if u get a good guy,,,,date him..and take care of yourself". actually things worked out better and we keep in touch though. if it is meant to work,,,,,,nothin will stop it.

wilmat · (#16 (**permalink**))

hey maze you gotta wake up before he starts doin it you know, cheating on you
otherwise
guys cheat if you did not know
yours faithfully
wilmat

jmaina5 · (#17 (**permalink**))

Young lady, wake up and smell cappuccino. Long distance just don't work. But u know what, take your time and b4 u realize u are screwing someone else. It's just natural. Don't waste your money on them toys gal. Get the real deal. But u can't get it if is lying in some kabriefs in the Motherland.

babygal · (#18 (**permalink**))

From personal experience as well as from observation, facts, gossip, hearsay etc. etc. it is very hard and demanding for two people to maintain and retain a long distance relationship. It is one thing if you are some miles apart or a few hours away from your significant other, but if you are thousands of kms apart the situation becomes even harder.
ALOT of men find it hard to remain faithful to their girl when she is miles away, temptation, hanjams, whatever, and it is a known fact that MOST men succumb to their physical needs. Don't get me wrong, there are those women who also fall into this category... so what I am trying to say is:
UNLESS you are married, I do not see how two people who see each other maybe once a year can remain faithful to one another... and all that stuff of ohh you love and trust him and you cant even fathom the idea of enjoying the company of a person of the opposite sex (or same sex in this day and age) is just you in denial. WE all seek comfort and companionship in one form or the other, so...... take each day as it comes, live your life to the fullest and if eventually you two end up together then good. There is no need to stress yourself out with thoughts of "is he dogging? does he mean what he says?" etc. There are more important issues in life..... but as they say, "Experience is the best teacher"

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Jackos · (#19 (**permalink**))

hon, wat i'd tell yu is jus listen to your heart.though there'z soo much negativity from pple about long distance relationship , think and be positive and pliz dont let
a single decision ruin all the good memories btwn yu .
you're incharge of yo own decisions

Jkanyoni · (#20 (**permalink**))

Okay now, This is really hard, I must say most of the time these kind or relationship end up soar, You may hav ejust come from Africa or wherever and with time the mails and all those sweet stuff will isha nd you got to move on, unless ya b/f comes over then its gonna be hard to maintain the r/ship, financially, emotionally and all those kind of stuff involved, tena if you are pretty young gal, its even worse but anyway i hope you can try what you can and hopefully it gonna work out.