Long distance relationship? - Page 2

Nadia · (#11 (**permalink**))

Ok.am no one good at relationships but one thing I know is long distance relationships with the correct amount of patience and love..it can work....but you have to be ready for this...

1. Miss him so much
2. Go out to the club and peeps hit on you.sometimes extremely hot mannos and all you can do is tell them
a) I have a manno in this and this place
b) I have no space for a lame ass like you cause I have a lovable mr huggable
c)I want you..but I can't have you.
d)Lets do this and forget about it

3. You must get ready for cold lonely nites and thoughts like...."What is he doing right now".....erm.I have to go to the mall right now so I'll continue later...byeeee...

Thanx for luvin' moir....I b crazy....I b me....I b N-A-D-I-#####

intelligent_beauty · (#12 (**permalink**))

Maybe they work
Maybe they dont
No one can answer that question for you
all relationships are different and unique
You should experiment for yourself...be your own guinnea pig
If it works...great..if it doesn't...oh heck..at least then you'd know if long distance relationships can really work

Shee · (#13 (**permalink**))

O.k say we decide that it can work out. My problem is after everything goes back to the way it used to be like before, what happens if we both acquired independence from each other. Does that mean that we start all over again? from scratch? This troubles me cause knowing how long it took for us to drop our guards.I am worried.Confused. I dont want to lose this. I cant move with him and neither can he stay. Ish....

banditlady0 · (#14 (**permalink**))

hi baibe, I think the best thing is just to hold on, wait and see as the events unfold. I believe that if your jamaa still communicates, then there is no prob. Now this thing of jumping in to another relationship coz your guy or chick is flown out of the country or is working far from you can turn out to be crazy.

May be the guy that you hock up with next leaves your town as well. That means you'll always be in and out of relationships and at the end of the day its you to loose.

I got a boyfriend who is in UK. And yes its true those questions of "what is he doing now", kinda pop up, worse still a time comes when you feel you need a man to hold you and all that comes along with it. But you got to refrain yourself. Besides it also has its own advantages like, you don't need to worry about STDs, always checking on your calender and wondering when your ps will kija next. So you don't loose in all baibe. Just hold on tight, am sure things will definately work out for the two of you. Talk to your jamaa as often as you can, hey he is just am email away.

rida · (#15 (**permalink**))

Sunshine

For sure long distance relationships are hard, but then I guess it depends on the individuals invloved. If it works out fine for them why not.

teejay · (#16 (**permalink**))

Human mind has become so immoral and confused by the confused confuser who confuses the confused.

Being in that state of mind one will always be confused.We know religiously that darkness will always hide its filthy face in presence of the light.

I will not therefore explain what love is but as far we are concerned Love does not stab on pipo's behind.What i mean is that if two pipo love each other.There never will be that feeling of insecurity.Even the distance will be cut short.

And by the way who told to have sex before getting married,then you go incoporating all the jamaas in your dirty nocturnal or dunal orgies.Do not justify your filthy ways by pointing at the other person.

What I know is that you got exposed to too mauch tv,and what ever you saw got youn mixed up.

If you could only keep your ##### in your pants then you''ll still be thinking baout her.

I think you are just one those Jamaas who Cant say I love you and stick to it.

zimmy · (#17 (**permalink**))

>Talk to your jamaa as often as you can, hey he is just am email away.

Lady0

Ati email away....
now tell me, will email :
hold you on those long,lonely,cooooold nites ??
tell you those nice words @ the right moments ??
be there for you when you need someone to talk to ??
give you a shoulder to cry on ??
be there to smile and laugh with ??
give you alil sum sum ;)
take you for dinner, etc
and most importantly, just be there

WAPI!!!

but trust and have faith in your man and will most deff work out. all depends on the understanding btw the two of you and not what the rest of us think or went through. sawa :)

KenyanRoc · (#18 (**permalink**))

>Maybe they work
>Maybe they dont
>No one can answer that question for you
>all relationships are different and
>unique
>You should experiment for yourself...be
>your own guinnea pig
>If it works...great..if it doesn't...oh
>heck..at least then you'd know if long
>distance relationships can really work

IB...Very good point.

All relationships are unique. it's not a one size fits all kinda deal so you have to get out there and follow your heart. If it ain't right trust me you will Jua.

ROC

ocho · (#19 (**permalink**))

I think people have the wrong idea of what a relationship is.
No relationship is perfect
Then a relationship that endures and overcomes problems gets stronger.
The problem with folk these days is we are too scared to take risks and we all like the easy way out.
A long distance relationship is not an easy thing but if a couple can make it work then they are more likley to deal with worse issues in the future.
What happens now is all of us folk like an easy way to do things....so we decide to escape issues as opposed to facing them.

playette · (#20 (**permalink**))

Hmmm
I am a strong beleiver that every relationship is unique.My advice to you is you both know your weakneses and strengths only you too can determine wether or not its going to work.
Good luck