Are Kenyan girls too passive?

[Benzema]

And I would ask you "Where did real Kenyan men go?" The kind that went straight up and told the woman he is attracted to how he feels?

Your post would have been useful had it sought skills to break the girls you seem unable to. You remind me of a shy college friend who would be drunk and seeing beautiful woman would shout "I want them to come all over me".

And FYI, some of us have Kenyan girls coming straight. This has been the case as long as I can remember. 90% of course are those I am not interested in.

As for your delusion with American girls, they are American, not Kenyans. If anything, go to your local craiglist and read "Missed Connections", you might as well learn women are basically the same species.

SO, how about upping your game, may be if you had something worthwhile they'll see it. Otherwise you just sound like a real loser.

[a.wanjala]

Your post would have been useful had it sought skills to break the girls you seem unable to.

I think my initial post did seek this. If it was not apparent before, I am looking for this type of advice.

As for your delusion with American girls, they are American, not Kenyans.

Hence the reason of the thread. I am aware of the presence of differences. I think perhaps there is a misunderstanding here. American girls are by no means the standard. In fact, I would say for me Kenyan girls are the standard.

I'm just looking to understand. Relax......

(I can see how the title of the thread might lead you to believe otherwise, but my intent was not to criticize.)

[Kwinnie]

thats a kenyan girls dilema....non passive is easy...passive eeerrr..which is the lesser evil?

[a.wanjala]

Update;

I got into an arguement about something similar with my friend/girlfriend yesterday. I swear it's like she read this thread...

Women are just too complex. Now she's accusing me of being passive....wtf, I was just trying to give her space. It's like she wants me to be engaging, but not all the time. She wants me to be respectful of her, but not all the time. Anyway, I tried calling her but she isn't picking up. Does anyone have advice? Should I just give her space and wait for her to contact me? ama should I continue calling/leaving messages? Any insights?

Aki, wtf is going on. It's like no matter what I do I'll be accused of being either overbearing or passive......

btw, thanks for the insights so far. They were helpful.

[al-zalzalah]

Originally Posted by a.wanjala

It's like she wants me to be engaging, but not all the time. She wants me to be respectful of her, but not all the time.

lol. it's fun when that happens isn't it?

call and leave her a message: that when she's ready to talk, she can call you. and then get on with your program for the day (kama ni tv, tizi.... wtva).

when she calls, ask her to clarify exactly what the problem is and what she wants from you. and then when she is done, you should clarify for her what the problem is from your perspective and what you want from her. and then find some middle ground.

[a.wanjala]

I've already left her a message asking her to call me. No responses.

[al-zalzalah]

haiya basi, you've done your job. she knows where to find you when she wants to talk. if your friendship means something to her she'll call.

[petershamdu]

One fact with Kenyan ladies, they behave like true Hasslers by playing hard to get. A chick who doesn't behave like she's a true hasler, she's either a ..........

[swachishizlle]

Originally Posted by fraglante

tehehehe….@ devine wanjala, its our culture. Women who approach and chase after men are deemed loose or depserate. It’s a man’s responsibility to take initiative.period.

but si u ladies are advocating for gender equity and equality. Then u shuold also make the first move at times if u are really for equality

[swachishizlle]

Originally Posted by didier

I kinda like the topic and lemmi say here is how kiuk women are defined from wea they come from.

Muranga---the best to marry and v hard working

Nyeri--very oppresive to their hubby and I dont av mention some names but u see them in the media

Kiambu--the worst of them all--very tempered and real gold diggers.

this some really funny ****