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Old 6th November 2009, 03:23 PM
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Tell me dear women:

And gentlemen alike:

What on earth (I mean under the sun), would lead a married woman with a beautiful daughter cook for a single dude, wash the single dude's dishes, accompany the single dude to places...while the hubby is watching daily?

Yap, the hubby and the wife live pamoja and seemingly they are happily married (I've seen them hug several times).

The single dude in question is interested in the wife...he told me so.

Take note that these three people; the wife, her husband, and the single dude, are neighbors.
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5 possibilities come to mind:
1. Swinging couple
2. Man is impotent for wtva reason (maybe health-related) and they're looking for somebody acceptable to both of them who won't threaten their marriage.
3. Man is gay and has come out to his wife. Lakini they don't want to divorce. This is their "arrangement" for now.
4. Woman is trying to make husband jealous and will ultimately have affair with your friend. Her husband is the watch and simmer type and works for the CID. In 10 years, when he knows of their rendezvous point and is feeling vengeful enough and wants to divorce bila lipaing alimony, he will go and shika them red-handed, halafu incite a crowd to march them to the police station naked, and make sure a cameraman is there to capture the golden moments on tape, all the while seeming cool, calm and collected and provoking the sympathy of onlookers.
5. your friend is delusional. (this one is the most likely.)

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4when he knows of their rendezvous point
He should be knowing by now. Not that the man hasn't seen the wife spend 7pm to 11pm in the neighbour's house...almost every evening.
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eh! ati 7pm to 11pm?! ok, possibility 6:
husband and wife are conman and conwoman who are setting him up big time. when wtva it is that they have planned goes down, they will both vanish and his bank account will have been cleared ama he'll have been framed for a crime he didn't commit (been watching too much TV).
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Marriages reach a point where routine is boring,so in this case the woman is kinda bored with her man and just like everyone of you here,trying something new to spice up her life is all that she wants with the new dude.
marriages are social Jails where you are imprisoned to live with one person wether you like it or not,because when the time comes when you are bored with her/him,you cant just walk away,its not acceptable in the Society..and dare you not say you are bored..just sulk,keep it to yourself and vumilia..This woman na mpango ya kando is bored with the man she married.
The new dude nayeye anajichanua,anakuta vitu kisawasawa or he is aiming there..Its Modern Society!
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eh! ati 7pm to 11pm?! ok, possibility 6:
husband and wife are conman and conwoman who are setting him up big time. when wtva it is that they have planned goes down, they will both vanish and his bank account will have been cleared ama he'll have been framed for a crime he didn't commit (been watching too much TV).
This is the possibility I was thinking about. I'm not sure if there is any man of the right mind who can allow his wife get any form of emotional and romantic entertainment (let alone sex) from a third party.
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This is the possibility I was thinking about. I'm not sure if there is any man of the right mind who can allow his wife get any form of emotional and romantic entertainment (let alone sex) from a third party.
I know you read, but you need to expand on your reading materials. There is big 'fetish' population out there, the fetishes range in degrees. But there are men who are turned on that their wives are being phucked by a guy they see as hot.

Some go a step further and want to watch her (girlfriend) being phucked. There was a worrying trend that had caught on in Nai city in the estates. That was the era of the infamous "Combi". It was amusing that this had almost become the norm, and chics, most interestingly allowed this and assumed it normal - a dude would phuck his galfriend together with his buddy. (It was quite a fad in some housing estates, mnazijua ).

And am almost 100% certain there are women here who allowed this or have allowed this - nothing wrong if you ask me, its your thing. Nairobi women who were teens in the 90's have closets they dare not open
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eh! ati 7pm to 11pm?! ok, possibility 6:
husband and wife are conman and conwoman who are setting him up big time. when wtva it is that they have planned goes down, they will both vanish and his bank account will have been cleared ama he'll have been framed for a crime he didn't commit (been watching too much TV).
Unfortunately I've never seen a movie or program with this kind of setting. Fortunately I've seen it happening in real life, name of couples and place withheld.

The couples did this to a foreigner (I hope the man here isn't a foreigner). Eventually they got money, bought a benz, and the foreigner was deported. To them they got the money and the foreigher is so far to revenge.
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Some go a step further and want to watch her (girlfriend) being phucked. There was a worrying trend that had caught on in Nai city in the estates. That was the era of the infamous "Combi". It was amusing that this had almost become the norm, and chics, most interestingly allowed this and assumed it normal - a dude would phuck his galfriend together with his buddy. (It was quite a fad in some housing estates, mnazijua ).
is this nairobi in the same kenya that dudes tell us they're gonna get their wives from because ati kenyan ladies in america are corrupt? lol. no wonder there are some serious shagzmundus rebellions happening when "innocent" kenyan wifeys are brought here.

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This is the possibility I was thinking about. I'm not sure if there is any man of the right mind who can allow his wife get any form of emotional and romantic entertainment (let alone sex) from a third party.
apparently there are. if yb* is to be believed, you are just living in the wrong estate.

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Unfortunately I've never seen a movie or program with this kind of setting. Fortunately I've seen it happening in real life, name of couples and place withheld. The couples did this to a foreigner (I hope the man here isn't a foreigner). Eventually they got money, bought a benz, and the foreigner was deported. To them they got the money and the foreigher is so far to revenge.
Ati he was deported? Man, that is cold! For their sake I hope he is not Nigerian, because those Nigerian networks extend everywhere, even in reykjavik.
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probably it is the guy who was married into the marriage. The lady might be setting up in readiness for the co-hussy

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