A sex question to the men and women too

[MWELU]

if a guy is pretty boring in bed and the girl takes control sexually by trying to spice up things how would you men take that.By spicing up things I mean like the girl suggesting they watch some porn or try different sex styles...would that be considered too aggressive or men would like it.

Help a girl out; am confused

[Augustine]

Originally Posted by MWELU

if a guy is pretty boring in bed and the girl takes control sexually by trying to spice up things how would you men take that.By spicing up things I mean like the girl suggesting they watch some porn or try different sex styles...would that be considered too aggressive or men would like it.

Help a girl out; am confused

He just isn't that into you......Tell him honey you suck in bed during sex so if you wanna learn i`ll bring this guy over we meet and he`ll show you how to do things right. He was on mashada forums and his user name is augustine. so if you wonna keep me ....you better do it good.

Right thea......the guy will come into his senses n he will learn...........u can thank me later!

[Yak]

"...Sunshine,some men would like it whilst others would be intimidated,insulted even,especially the porn part,so be gentle with that...suggesting trying different angles & shapes on the slumberland might just do it,men get bored quickly when you serve 'em the same old meal every morning,noon 'n night,you might just be surprised he's thinking the same naughty things you're thinking he's just scared to ask you,if none of that works you can go ahead and call Augustine and "thank him" .."

[mineboy]

A good question and i hope you get the answer, but wait, "A sex question to the men and women too", i wonder who else could the question be addressed to? cows, donkeys, ....... apart from men and women

[MWELU]

Originally Posted by Augustine

He just isn't that into you......Tell him honey you suck in bed during sex so if you wanna learn i`ll bring this guy over we meet and he`ll show you how to do things right. He was on mashada forums and his user name is augustine. so if you wonna keep me ....you better do it good.

Right thea......the guy will come into his senses n he will learn...........u can thank me later!

Thanks Augustine but thats kinda hilarous.

[MWELU]

Originally Posted by Yak

"...Sunshine,some men would like it whilst others would be intimidated,insulted even,especially the porn part,so be gentle with that...suggesting trying different angles & shapes on the slumberland might just do it,men get bored quickly when you serve 'em the same old meal every morning,noon 'n night,you might just be surprised he's thinking the same naughty things you're thinking he's just scared to ask you,if none of that works you can go ahead and call Augustine and "thank him" .."

Your advice makes so much sense ..I thought so too .that it would depend on the person ..Thing is though I have suggested a couple styles n we do it that way but the next time we go back he goes to missionary (which is te only style he likes) style which to me is pretty boring if done over n over.I think thats the only style he enjoys best bt he forgets that sex is supposed to be enjoyed by both.so .its not like he is not into me that I know for sure I just think he isnt exposed enough but he is a GREAT person n thats why am still hanging in there

[MWELU]

Originally Posted by mineboy

A good question and i hope you get the answer, but wait, "A sex question to the men and women too", i wonder who else could the question be addressed to? cows, donkeys, ....... apart from men and women

Thanks for your awesome response...it could have been to the donkeys as well..

[Yak]

Originally Posted by MWELU

.its not like he is not into me that I know for sure I just think he isnt exposed enough but he is a GREAT person n thats why am still hanging in there

"..And patience pays,rest assured,but don't defend him too much any man who responds nonchalantly like that when candy,cookies "n all things nice are served to him in all manner of ways really does need a more closer look,lets be real..you should also try turning the tap off on him once in a while you see how thirsty for you he really gets,it's time you let your feelings known.."

[msema ukweli Kabisa]

I think he will appreciate it. He is just lazy and just wants to bust his nut off with the least effort.

I don't know what styles you like but initiate occasionally. Esp lazy men love a chic riding them. And a chic gets hers faster on top so why not.

About porn as much as am open mided its a slippery slope. Because the porn will actually arouse the two of you but when you are doing the do..... Mwelu will be thinking of the huge madingo man and your boyfie will be thinking about the shaniqua who was being banged....

Soon you will get turned on by each other rather by external stumulli

[MWELU]

Originally Posted by msema ukweli Kabisa

I think he will appreciate it. He is just lazy and just wants to bust his nut off with the least effort.

I don't know what styles you like but initiate occasionally. Esp lazy men love a chic riding them. And a chic gets hers faster on top so why not.

About porn as much as am open mided its a slippery slope. Because the porn will actually arouse the two of you but when you are doing the do..... Mwelu will be thinking of the huge madingo man and your boyfie will be thinking about the shaniqua who was being banged....

Soon you will get turned on by each other rather by external stumulli

Thanks MUK i could never figure out these things