love na makaratasi are two different things but respect peoples feelings.

[jedimeditricks]

Am writing this in agony, am loathing with anger. Our society has lost decency. We have lost reverence for ourselves. We are just another butch of covetous, selfish generation. Am writing this, after witnessing some very abhorrent situation.Some Kenyans are an ignominy and humiliation to their mothers. Am talking of men whores..avaricious dudes who can’t even think. Imagine a woman helps u get papers and u playing her.u never kept any of the fantasy promises u made to her,u left her out of skool, homeless and in debt must be the most solid humanity there is on earth..i promise i will go toe to toe with u if u want and u wont like the result..u such a useless twat...i hope u die of cancer..and yet u have the courage to tell me of our exploits..thank God those dudes were in the house i could have killed u.. Thankless kyuk ..i have a sister out there let no man think of coming near her..

[mwolovi]

wow!! you you hav been played like that.
hell hath no fury like a woman conned.

[jotono]

Let me tell you kitu moja. So many peaople have been played like that juu ya makaratasi you do everything for the an or woman to join you, then he gets makaratasi and you lose his/her attention, sometimes anakuwa playa openly.
My opinion is this. Never invite someone and organize kila kitu aku join ulaya ama stato expecting them to worship you for that. Do it only coz you like the person, not because of expected reciprocity. That is where many people go wrong.

[okiedokes]

Originally Posted by jotono

Let me tell you kitu moja. So many peaople have been played like that juu ya makaratasi you do everything for the an or woman to join you, then he gets makaratasi and you lose his/her attention, sometimes anakuwa playa openly.
My opinion is this. Never invite someone and organize kila kitu aku join ulaya ama stato expecting them to worship you for that. Do it only coz you like the person, not because of expected reciprocity. That is where many people go wrong.

I agree, but I don't think it's that simple. Nobody brings anyone just b/c they like them unless it's a relative in which case both parties know it's just a contract. Usually, one person gives the other the impression that they are genuinely in love with them, ofcourse there will be different expectations.
In this case it will seem this person also destroyed(debt, homeless, etc) whomever helped them. That's what the poster seems pissed off about.

@poster, the thing with such people is that they do not care about others, just the bottomline - makaratasi. It's unfortunate, but worry not. As more gov'ts crack down on sham marriages, they will have fewer options. Plus karma is a you know what!

If it helps let me share a story about this kenyan friend of mine who married this good for nothing piece of sh*t, also a kenyan. Paid his fees for about 3 yrs, he had affairs, ran up phone bills, etc. After a planned visit to kenya to visit in-laws, dude abandoned her during the entire trip but showed up at airport when she was returning to ask for money. Anyway, she filed divorce papers and removed him from her application for makaratasi. He got the shock of his life when he found out. You should have seen him crying like a 2 yr old.

[OOWITI]

Originally Posted by jotono

My opinion is this. Never invite someone and organize kila kitu aku join ulaya ama stato expecting them to worship you for that. Do it only coz you like the person, not because of expected reciprocity. That is where many people go wrong.

What people who have makaratasi think is they are in control of the other persons life and use their markaratasi status to control.It is like donating a kidney to someone and then if they dont do what you want you decide to go get your own kidney back.When you chose to do markaratasi to someone to someone is because you care!!!If they abuse you in the process let them get their markaratasi and walk away.God will revenge for you and be glad you saw the true colors of this person.Pray you live long enough to see how lucky you are they showed you their true colors.